Have no idea what to do with my life. I feel like all I think about is work and I’m not even working right now - I left consulting last year for a startup, let go during Covid, joined a VC fund as an intern but wasn’t asked to stay on. Girlfriend just had to move to a new city for a great job. I have no clue what to do

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That... Is so rough. I'm sorry dude.
Start small. Don't worry about what to do for your life or career, keep your day to day together

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You've got this, just breathe and keep trying. Write down your goals & really sit and think about your wants. Categorize them into short and long term. Be structured.

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I’m sorry that is a rough go. I agree with the other commenters. Start day to day and week to week. The whole world is upended right now so it’s pointless to worry about the rest of our careers.

Focus on improving your present quality of life however you can.

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