It took me 5 years to realize my husband has very low EQ and it’s driving me crazy. What to do?

How do you feel about public holiday gatherings? I felt like such a crummy mother for not taking my kids out to see a parade or fireworks yesterday. But then with the tragedy in Illinois and (on a much smaller scale) the number of local fires because of fireworks (which are banned in my town, btw), I feel so much safer having my kids at home.

What’s with Sloan and Haas releasing decisions earlier than planned? If Sloan LGO came out today, I think Sloan regular full time will come out tomorrow instead of Weds.

What’s the best place/resource to make a will? I’m in California. Any other advice would be appreciated!

Are any other juniors billing pretty little since the market correction?

What is the matket for mechanical core field?
In terms of package ?

Had to travel to India urgently. Had my Dropbox appointment and waiting for update. However, I still haven’t received my i797A from USCIS. Employer provided a clarification for the delay. Is i797A absolutely needed to re-enter US and any suggestions to pursue it from USCIS ? TIA

Is there anybody who works/ have worked at Mother NY? Of course the agency has a great reputation but how’s the environment?
There’s an opportunity and I wanted to know opinions of the agency.

People who, when asked to provide availability for a call to discuss a matter, do not and just call you out of the blue regardless of your availability. Why are you like this?

A white friend of mine in my start class has, verbatim, told me he does little but delegate and cover his ass on his last engagement and has seen two promotions in our time, as I fight to even find a staffing. It’s so wild how much harder we really have to work and push and succeed to even get 1/3 as far, and I don’t know where to even exit to that would actually provide more growth potential. I’m just ready to throw in the towel

Loved that last thread on what traits you'd look for in a partner.

I think what I want most in a wife is for us to be a power couple. I'd define this as having each other's backs (me & you facing the world), being financially independent / saving aggressively, and having a shared approach to raising our kids.

What traits do you characterize power couples by?

We are up to a massive 22 members! I know there are more Wagon Wheel Fish out there. Reel them in all!

Is the IFRI certificate program from SOA worthy?

What Alts best to hodl for 1-2 months? I'm thinking XLM, looking for a few others

Every time i drink alcohol, i start to feel sick. I get a headache and nauseas. Does anyone else get this? Is there a way to get through it?

Me, An Amazon employee asking for any discount coupons to shop on Amazon, please help felow Amazonians.

For those of you who are or have been in a long distance relationship, have you tried any app to help with communicating? We used to be so good at talking and texting but the more time passes the more boring it gets. And we love each other and are planning on moving closer but I was thinking there has to be something to help for now. I got an ad on ig for Evergreen for wanted to know if anyone here has other suggestions on things to try! Thanks

Anyone with stories about being in a long term relationship with an alcoholic? Not necessarily looking for advice - more a view into what this might look like down the road. We’ve been together 1.5yrs

What’s your favorite perfume?

I am so devastated about RBG. She fought for women her whole life.

Tall women— where do you find jeans? I’m 5’8 and 115 lbs and I’m struggling to find jeans that fit/flatter me. I’m loving the straight jean look but I’m open to skinny jeans and boyfriend jeans. I used to get AE jeans but their Tall jeans are always out of stock.

My boyfriend (of 10 months) just lost his grandma. We are long distance at the moment bc of covid, but I want to send him something. Is it okay to send flowers? What are other options for things I could send? Have never had to deal with anything like this.

Anyone have recommendations for good snow boots that don’t look horrendous with work clothes?

My husband has a good female friend who he has known since grad school (well before we met). They have been platonic for as long as they’ve known each other. I met her shortly after my husband and I started dating and she has also become a friend of mine, though closer to my husband. We hang out with her a lot, though admittedly less over past few years since we had kids (and Covid!). Tonight we were supposed to meet up with her for drinks and dinner but our babysitter cancelled last minute.

I expressed to my male SM when I thought I was not being included in this vision I helped create when he assigned work to everyone but me. We talked it out and he expressed his management style and how it wasn’t intentional but now I’m wondering if I came off as dramatic for expressing myself.

Have any of you dated younger? Perks? Red flags? I’m looking at 4-5 years my junior and not affiliated in any way with my profession.

Does anyone follow any fashion/luxury blogs? Youtubers? Care to share?

I’m starting to get anxious about when quarantine lifts and everyone will go hang out with their closest friends, leaving me to fall through the cracks 😞 this is college all over again

Anyone have insight into what I can do to prepare for when hair salons reopen? I’m hearing that some places are already booked up with regulars betting on when stores will reopen and I want to make sure I get polished before going back onsite (whenever that is!)

Has anyone noticed changes with their period after getting the vaccine?

I think of myself as mostly attractive. But I feel like I get automatically eliminated by a lot of guys because I’m curvier. (Size 12ish). I usually do dating apps, but once I messaged a guy on here and once I sent a body pic he stopped responding. It’s hard not to take it to heart. :(

Waking up this morning to find folks are still getting dragged by the short and curlies over 45.

Ladies on Poshmark: I just received my first purchase, which is 2 dresses by the same seller. She said they were both dry cleaned after last use but both have deodorant stains in armpit, animal fur & some other random grossness. Can I get my $ back? Not sure what to do, mainly annoyed that she straight up lied about having them cleaned and didn’t even bother to shake the fur off or get deodorant marks off 😒 TIA for your help!!

Any 🐠 in Atlanta want to hangout? I often find myself alone or with bf - my current set of friends are always busy on their own. Looking to make some new meaningful friends!

Tips on staying motivated & engaged on a project that you are not interested in? Been on this project for months & have never found the work interesting but I’ve pushed through Contd..

Any marriage counselor / couples counselor recommendations in the Miami area? Or generally anybody given sessions are likely remote right now