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Gets dark so quick now… ugh
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i did this in college to my ab*ser (mental, emotional) i knew i had to get away from him but it was difficult in the circumstances plus his parents had just become private plane-level rich and it was right before christmas so why not milk it through valentines day
i got to check out the plane! but by the time they really got to use it, i was so repulsed by him i had absolutely NO desire to travel w him. thankfully i was able to get out not too long after :)
Yes. I have totally done this. I was a promo model and the guy I met was the VP of Finance in the hospitality industry. He paid for trips to AZ, manicures, massages, housewarming gifts, my Burberry trench, LV bag…. And no, I did not sleep with him. Not even a kiss!
Enthusiast
Was the guy old and married? Cause I can’t see a single man do all of this without a kiss or more
Chief
Nope, I don’t like people enough to keep seeing someone I’m not actually interested in 😂
Rising Star
Same. Plus I’m a decent person? Not sure how people do this unless it’s an upfront agreed upon transaction type relationship.
Chief
My wife definitely did and I was one of those idiots 😂 . Too bad she ended up falling for this idiot.
Enthusiast
Objection your honor, leading
Chief
I would rather be home in my pajamas thanks
Rising Star
💯🎯
I don’t even understand how a woman could do this for a free dinner. I’d rather eat instant noodles than a Michelin star feast with some uninteresting guy, much less mislead him in order to do it.
Conversation Starter
I totally would do that if I had money! ^^ I loved eating alone when I lived in Ann Arbor and was pretending to have money via student loans lol.
eavesdropping is one of my guilty pleasures 🫥
Conversation Starter
People are that desperate? 😂
Chief
Strung along? 😂 No. I’ve always had my own $
But plenty of men have (happily) paid for all these things…
never “strung”
Visual Storyteller
Nope. Parents taught me to pay for myself always
Nope, if he doesn’t pass the nap test, I’m going to stay in and rest.
M&C3- fair question, I’m usually the one carrying the conversations. I love meeting people, am great in person and have a fairly full social and travel calendar, at least, I did pre-pandemic.
I caught feelings during the pandemic (it’s mutual) and am getting married this summer.
Even now, I’ll run the nap test. If a date/event feels like a chore, we stay in. There’s no shortage of things to do at home.
Pro
Yes. But not always stringing along. He gets some things in return multiple times.
That sounds grimy. I’m not that desperate for things.
Came for the interesting stories. Left filled with disappointment 🫠
Pro
Me too. No real dirt dished so far.
Enthusiast
No - Receiving gifts isn’t part of my love language. I often feel like I owe them something if they purchase something other than a basic meal so I avoid it
^^same
Conversation Starter
Nope
No, time is precious. I can buy my own stuff and would rather enjoy it solo than with someone I didn't enjoy being with.
No
Pro
No… who would?
Chief
👀👀🧐
No lol