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New here. 35M NYC metro area.
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Any Chicago folks in here..?
I did and we soon realized why we broke up.
Yeah and then I wasted another year of my life...
Yup
Took better part of a decade yo-yoing
Why did you break up the first time and what has changed since? If nothing has changed, you're just biding time until the same arguments/issues come up again. If you and the significant other worked on what caused the break up the first time, then it might work a second time.
Have each of you reflected on what went wrong? Have each of you grown? If not, it's probably a waste of time. You'll just repeat the cycle and end up in the same place having wasted time.
I did and felt like he was just tolerating me.. felt like crap after every encounter with him.. like every conversation was about my flaws or who else i was dating.. meeehhh dont do it
Every situation is different. Kobe and Vanessa got remarried. Sometimes going back works, sometimes it doesn’t 🤷♂️ every situation is unique so it’s hard to compare. Ask yourself why you broke up and if you think that reason has/can change (or maybe that reason isn’t a dealbreaker anymore). Just make sure you don’t get sucked into something mediocre just because you’re lonely.
It was only a 3 month thing. I started to see bad signs halfway in. I pointed out things that bothered me but I don't think he took it seriously. I called to break up 2 weeks ago. He wants to talk now and I'll repeat all my issues again in person. I don't feel a need to try again but i think he's going to try and talk me into it
Hmm this is kind of different. It sounds like you guys were dating as opposed to a long term relationship so it might be more feasible to adjust. Having said that, do you care about someone you dated for a short while enough to try again? Especially if you could see bad signs so soon into it!