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Have you guys lost good friendship because you were too honest?!? I have lost so many ppl over the years that im starting to not be myself in fear of losing the new ppl I meet

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There's a difference between being honest and being cruel. If you are losing friends because of "honesty" it means that you probably aren't handling the situations quite right.

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Honesty must be paired with tact, my friend.

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Sounds like you're just an asshole

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I generally find that I don't want to be friends with people who don't like honesty. I basically never lie and rarely sugar-coat, but when I am critical I at least attempt diplomacy.

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