Having a really hard time during this quarantine. I’m in love with a man who doesn’t love me and doesn’t want to be with me. Cont in comments

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Sadly, we have been hanging since the quarantine and he is the only person I can see during this time. To add salt to the injury I found out he has taken the next step to moving on by dating on hinge. It hurts and Idk what to do. I feel so helpless and pathetic for going back to him when I feel lonely.

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I know that feel 😢 I can’t even give you advice cause I’m also in pain rn haha but we both know what we gotta do...

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Sorry to hear. I know you are sad but perhaps pick up a new hobby/interest to keep your mind occupied. Do home workouts , read a book. Look into other living options granted may be hard to move out or kick him out.

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Thank you. Thankfully we don’t live together but we are both away from our families which makes me hard. I’ve beat myself none stop for going back to him when I feel alone and start having anxiety from being cooped up but he’s the only one I can still see. This is such a mind fuck

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I’m in same boat. In love with someone from work. He has a gf. I don’t have them courage to tell him how I feel.

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I know.. I’m struggling to move on myself. But we can do this 💪🏼 time is the best remedy.

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