Heading towards my first (and hopefully last) divorce. I'm resentful of my career because I feel like it was a huge contributing factor to the failure of my marriage.

I made a mistake. I talked with the ex this morning. He said he misses me. And that while he walk talking to the other woman, he wished he was talking to me instead. And when he saw that I didn’t respond to his texts, he drank a shit ton. And then called this morning.

He’s not willing to commit to the other women because he’s not over me.

I need to block him.

What are the top questions you get about big law work over Thanksgiving? Mine is never actually about my work and always some variation of "if you work that much how will you ever get married." Flying home this weekend so bring on the wine!

My husband told me my sneezes hurt his ears. What funny thing has your SO told you since beginning of Quarantine 2020?

I'm 1 out of 4 siblings, I make the most out of my siblings, do you sometimes double down or not share your accomplishments with your family to NOT seem you are "showing off"? Or should I just live my life?

I teach children with severe and profound disabilities so online learning is not an option, but I video call the parents so the kids can see me because I know it’s very difficult for the parents

I would just like to give a shoutout to all eldest siblings, who acted as the guinea pig and broke down their parents so that the young siblings can live their best life. Y’all are the real MVPs 🙌🏼

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

Day 27 of 31: I miss my wife.
(We're not separated or anything. I've been on an extended work/family obligations trip).

me: how can i help you today?
customer: can you get me a younger wife who talks less?
me: …

3 months post breakup… I seemed to be healing well and all the sudden this week I took a huge step back and feel heartbroken all over again. For context I was in a 4 year relationship including 1 year engaged and had to call my wedding off due to his infidelity. How can I shake this? 😔

Tempted to make an onlyfans but I don’t want my family/coworkers to find out 😰

Best self-care tips for dealing with loneliness/sadness this time of year? This is my first Christmas without my mom and it just feels like nothing will ever be the same again 😭. If you’ve lost a parent can you give me advice on getting through the holidays? Being a parentalish figure to my students is both healing and heartbreaking.

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

What are some nice things your significant other does for you while it’s busy season? For me, he always comes out to greet me and carry my things from my car

What are best places /sites to find out professionals who have never been in relationship before (cultural requirement ) and looking for serious relationship , marriage and open for interfaith apart from Christian mingle or any other religion based site ?Any suggestions

Anyone doing any investing in Charleston, SC

Hi everyone, need some advice.
A local b d / ria has an opening for an Advisor. We provide the leads in the form of current abandoned brokerage clients and the advisor just needs to build relationships and grow the business.
In addition he/she would have the opportunity to build and lead a team of other advisors.
For a candidate with 12+ years of experience what would be an appropriate compensation structure (base plus commission %)
Thank you in advance for your help.

Hello Fishes, I am a Servicenow developer with 3+ years of experience.
Currently having offer from wipro of 13.5 Lpa is it worth joining ?

How is career growth, job security and work/life balance in wipro?

Thanks

Anyone work in real estate or familiar with the Realogy rebrand to Anywhere? Curious about opinions.

I found out I'm making nearly $20,000 under my salary. I have a scheduled 1:1 meeting with my Director in 2 days - How do I best ask for this kind of raise? Is it too much?

I know I took out the loans and I should repay them and I’m normally fiscally conservative and against giving out free money. But I am hoping student loans get completely cancelled. It would greatly boost the economy if people do not have them hanging over their heads. However, forgiving what is currently there won’t help long term if the predatory practices around student loans aren’t fixed along with soaring tuition prices and salaries for administrators.

Traveling after a long-term local project. Trying to decide between points/status with Marriott and Hilton. Cont:

13 lpa capgemini in hand will be ??

What should be my ideal package at 6.5yr exp ?
I was happy at 13 lpa 16 lpa and even 23lpa as i don't spend much and monthly expenses are under 20-30k, but every now and then i hear my friend got X lpa, Y lpa I feel happy for them.

Even after getting a 33.5lpa offer with a good Product Based company everyone is suggesting me to look for counter.

Tech Stack: Adobe Coldfusion 4.5 yr , Python Django 2 yr( currently on this)
Current CTC : 23 lpa(fix)
Offer : 30(fix)+2.6(variable)+1(retention)

Partners how did u go about growing ur own staff and your own organization once you made partner?

I got interview from UST global for Onsite position with L1 visa ., Now my CTC is 16.3 LPA with 10 YOE in Java, Springboot microservices.

How much I can expect now? To get maximum package.

I wake up at 3 AM everyday for 2 years and can’t go back to sleep till 6 AM, I go a therapist, he listens but my condition hasn’t improved since a year. Any suggestions?

If you’re interested in BNY Mellon, send a DM with a specific role of interest

Anyone have a spouse/partner who is a picky eater?

I grew up with two french bodybuilders for parents and enjoy super minimally seasoned, whole, unprocessed foods (yes, we were the weird house for not having goldfish as kids), and I live with my handsome man from a beautiful Mexican family who cook with many flavors but also eat out a LOT.

He is okay about my cooking as it is 90% veggies, but some nights he’s blunt that he’s picky, and I whine about going out. Thoughts?

Got an offer of 20 lakhs from IBM, what would be the in-hand salary per month.

If a job and company is remote, do you ignore the location posting on it? I assume it’s for tax purposes?

How is the onsite opportunities in the coforge..?

HR called me and said this position is for onsite once the border gates are open...? Can i believe HR words..?
I am interested in Onsite opportunities.

How to handle the dual employment in BGV? I have a friend who have a overlap of 30-40 days from his last organization which is not disclosed in CV and with current organization. I feel UAN check will spoil it but his overlap is cuz he wasn't able to return assets back during COVID. Any suggestions?

Does anyone have examples of a 10-hr shift schedule? My department wants to switch from 8- to 10-hr shifts

Can I get 15 likes so I can DM please!!??

Echo and nuclear leaders and techs: is your facility 1) requiring COVID testing before exercise stress testing, 2) wear N95 and PPE, or 3) both testing and PPE?
Our clinic is removing the cost barrier of testing but staff are worried about risks since echo rooms don’t have HEPA or negative pressure systems and patients are allowed to remove their masks while running and breathing heavy during image acquisition.
Have you had good / bad experience with lack of Covid testing before stresses?

I need some advice. I am the chief science officer for a genetics company. The CEO recruited me with the intent of giving me ownership. He still hasn’t and it’s been a year. How can I approach this. He is very emotional but I also love what I don’t and see incredible potential

Looking for ideas for a slight "career change". I can't stand working bedside/acute care nursing anymore, officially burnt out.

Does anyone have any experience with informatics based nursing jobs, or clinical documentation specialist positions? EMR auditing? Remote jobs? Pros/cons? Do you find there are part time positions available?

I don't have my masters just my BSN/RB, nor do I plan on going back for my masters, would possibly consider a certification if really necessary.

Looking for average salary for Physical Therapist Assistant with 4-6 years of experience in the Binghamton NY area.

I am a med surg nurse in a hospital and the burnout is horrible. I’m looking for something remote part time because I can’t keep going like this and need something a bit more manageable.

Anyone here a Behavior Analyst with primarily pediatrics experience who has successfully transitioned out of a direct patient care role into maybe health care tech or clinical trials? Have a STEM background with experience in data analysis as well

Good morning! Are there any companies that will provide training for certification for wfh nurses? Example: hedis, oasis, coding or case manager.

Clinical nurse trainers in Chicago are and what do they make?

Can you counteroffer the VA? Is that even a thing? I’m curious to know how this works.

how much should an NYC physical therapist in SNF setting make? I am fulltime with benefits but think i was lowballed. ive had 2 and a half years experience in outpatient then transitioned to this snf.

Hi there! I’m a new grad PT trying to navigate/figure out what a fair starting pay is and if I should negotiate. I will be working in acute care for a well known hospital in Cincinnati, OH. Anyone willing to share their pay and YOE?

I’m a certified Health Coach (my training/courses are CCE-accredited by the International Coach Federation) w/ a BS in Psychology. I got a temp to hire starting at $18/hr. It is my first professional health coach job & they did not require temps to have a coaching certification, but I have one. I’d like to know if temps could negotiate salary when given the job offer. The position is remote & I’d like $20/hr. I’ve invested in myself as a coach & plan to complete board certification by early 2023

I am an hourly employee. Currently if there is a hospital call that needs to be done, someone will volunteer to do it for overtime. Now, my company wants to create a set call schedule. If we get a call at 5pm, when my shift ends, can I still be required to complete the call? I will be paid overtime but don’t like the fact they will force it upon us.

Hi I need likes to DM for connections. Please like. Thanks in advance!

I work as a staffing supervisor and in the beginning it was really rough and I’ve decided two months in that I was going to quit. I advise my current job that I was and they decided that they wanted me stay and they agreed to move me to a different department that was less stressful and more up my alley. But they haven’t done anything yet and Although I’m not in a rush I’ve had more time to think and I still want leave the Company. i’m not sure I will to find hospital job in New York ..