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Hello everyone! I am excited to be with you and the Fishbowl community today. I’ll be checking this conversation all throughout the day (I live in Oakland, CA so I am Pacific Time hours) and will do my best to respond to as many of your questions as I can.  Hope you’re feeling compelled by the frank conversations that take place on Fishbowl. I’m glad that you’re accessing this as a resource to invest in your mental health and physical wellbeing.  This is me!  [object Object]

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Suggestion: people would probably ask more questions if they knew who you were? Perhaps an introduction?


Good call! I will create a post soon that shares more about my background. Thanks for the idea.

Hi Melissa, thank you so much for your time :) I have a question, or perhaps a doubt - I have been working with a firm where I have a strong support system, good mentors, good career growth and added benefits. But from the mid-2020s I have started feeling restless and work doesn't excite me anymore. I just feel the monotony of doing same thing day in and out overwhelming. I've been making frequent mistakes and while my seniors are understanding, I do feel that complacency and lack of interest will aggravate the situation further. I have decided to search for more 'interesting' work outside my firm now. Does it sound like a wise decision?


Thanks for the question. It sounds like despite all the great components of your current job that it's just not satisfying some other need you have to be excited and engaged in your work. I often ask clients to articulate their "workview" before we dive into solutioning. Namely, what do you believe work should be about? What is it for? If your view of work is mostly about stability/money then you probably wouldn't be feeling this way. I assume that you have additional hopes that your work provide you more stimulation/meaning/purpose than it currently does. There's nothing wrong with that. I think doing experiments and indulging your curiosity about other paths is a healthy exercise. How can you learn about yourself and what lights you up without quitting your job yet? And if it's hard to work full time and also figure out what's next, do you have sufficient resources saved up to be able make the leap and then take 6 months of savings and use that time to find out what's next. I do think this is a situation where working with a coach can be helpful to have a sounding board and someone to help you connect insights about what it is that you truly are looking for. Hope this helps!


Thank you for your kind and thoughtful comments! <3

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