Hello friends. I just need some encouragement or support, I think? I feel like I’m in a rut with my career. I feel unhappy for a variety of reasons but primarily gender politics. I want to apply elsewhere but I feel like my confidence has been drained, and I don’t quite feel like I’m good enough to get a job anywhere I’d like to work. I just want to make a difference and learn but it all just feels so hopeless right now 😭

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My advice is to focus on your hobbies and relationships outside of work. I did this and it had such remarkable results for me – I’m happier, kinder, and ironically perform better at work. You may have more energy to apply to other jobs after you take a little step back, too.

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