Hello, I’m a father and due to a difficult childbirth (to an amazing son) my wife is apprehensive about a 2nd pregnancy. Knowing her risks, I agree.
Im considering sperm donation, she is unsure.

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Sperm donation wouldn't require her to be pregnant a 2nd time? Sorry OP I'm not sure I understand the question

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Do you mean a surrogate? Also unsure how sperm donation solves the problem.

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