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Hello! My sister lives with another girl in San Diego and someone started leaving flowers on their front door (apartment has its own staircase but is open to courtyard). They got a ring camera and they have seen him walk to their door and drop off flowers when they turn the lights out….super creepy! He wears a baseball cap so you can’t see his face. He quickly drops the flowers off and then walks back out. What should they do 😪

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Baseball cap?…joe?! But on a serious note, tell the non emergency police and send them the evidence - if he comes regularly at a certain time they can easily speak to him

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Yes! This is the first time they got him on the ring since they just got one but the 4th time he has left something 😬

Report it to the apartment manager and police - if it always happens right after they turn the lights out, it means the guy is watching the apartment, which is stalking. They definitely want to have a record of things.

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I'd consider calling the non emergency police line. This is really creepy. Also consider getting a motion sensor light for the front door

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Good!! Hopefully the police can come monitor or the guy stops being awful

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Wow that’s creepy as hell

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Update: landlord alerted the entire complex with a photo of him from the video footage and looking at installing a gate to the courtyard area to access the apts

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Woah… I live in San Diego and this is so scary! OP please keep us posted on what happens.

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I will!

Also make sure they get a pepper spray or a weapon to defend themselves. People are crazy out there.

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Definitely report to police. This is super creepy and scary. If this guy is careful about not showing his face, then I would definitely do everything possible to take precautions. Hope they stay safe. Also see if there are cameras elsewhere in the building that might be catching him that can be used to identify him.

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OP, ask them to be careful when they are going out and alone as well. I have been watching a few true crime documentaries and it can be a scary world out there. Better safe than sorry.

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