Hello so I recently had a situation. I worked at an office for 10 years. I asked the supervisor for help and she has a tantrum. Starts yelling, what do u want? Ripping up my schedules for the next day. After all the commotion I go to her office to talk to her and she starts throwing away her lunch, mind you it 4 pm and saying I guess I get no lunch today, what can I do for you? What would you have done?

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I would have left, or gone to HR. Not only is that completely unprofessional, but it's also creating a hostile work environment for you and others. She is not allowed to speak to you that way in the work environment, supervisor or no.

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That is toxic energy, beware. Please distance yourself from it, the further away, the better.

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Report to HR or her supervisor after waiting one hour to regulate my emotions. Then…get my poop in a group and write my resignation letter if she didn’t get fired or suspended.

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Ugh!

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Did you report her behavior?!

Yes at my exit interview

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Omg that is UNACCEPTABLE. you need to report this behavior!

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