Hello there, I’m just wonder if anyone of you experienced studying or interview prep anxiety. I’m very chill during learning process but when it comes to deadline stress reduces my ability to generate thoughts. Any ideas how to overcome it?

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I’d ask yourself why you feel that way. What’re your thoughts that cause you to experience anxiety when you hear or feel the deadline?

There’s an underlying cause to this all which is possible to train your mindset out of. Some a lot harder than others. But it starts with understanding why you feel the way you do.

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