Help! I have tall girl problems and I need some recommendations. I'm 5'11, 180lbs and I'm trying to find work clothes that don't hug my derriere and look too suggestive, or pants that won't make me look like I'm about to cross a river. Jacket sleeves aren't long enough and forget about skirts, when I walk they keep riding up so I have to always stick to loose ones and yearn to wear a pencil skirt.

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Not me but I know a friend in similar situation. She went with custom tailoring. And since that's expensive, she stuck with 2-3 classic pieces/colors that she can mix and match with different shirts/blouses.
Also custom fitting takes an ordinary look to a whole new level. Maybe try that route?
If it is too expensive, pick a few pieces who's fabric and style you like when if they're too lose fit your frame, and get them altered to your liking. That's what I do with jackets/Blazers. I always ask my tailor before buying them, so he can tell me if the alteration will help and be worth it or not.

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Thanks, its definitely an option I can try.

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“About to cross a river…” lol 😂 Well done 👏🏻👏🏻

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Not quite that tall, but similar problems! I do a lot of my shopping at Nordstrom (with their cc) buy clothes a size or two up and then take advantage of their tailoring benefits. Not quite as pricey as custom tailoring but you can still look sharp!

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Thanks, I didn't know they offered that.

As SC 1 says and also look how much garment material is there that you can losen to give you more space at the part where the cloth is knit together (sorry not English native speaker but I hope you understand what I mean). Some brands have more, some less. But this gives you more chances to choose from and then adjust.

To underscore SC1 recommendation: try to find out, who the best tailor is in town. Sometimes the people in the shop can recommend someone or you ask some well dressed people. Mine is a Turkish guy who just knows his stuff and all the shops around it, even the large chains recommend him.

Tailor and dry-cleaners are the first things I try to find out, when I move to a new city. Next is bars and restaurants 😉

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Thank you 😊

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