Hey Everyone! I am an HRBP working remote. My husband has been on paternity leave with work which has allowed me to freely work and juggle mom life. My husband is going back to work on monday and the realization of being home alone with a 5 month old is dawning in. Any tips from wfh mommas that can share their experiences? Tips? Recommendations? Open to all!

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Tools!!! Walker, Bouncy, Playpin, Shows, Music, and a schedule for naps at lunch. This is how I have done it. I have a 8 month old.

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You don’t have any human help?

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Check your company requirements for child care (sometimes it’s mandatory). It’s tough with no human help and, despite what some say, it’s impossible to fullly focus on your job and take care of an infant.

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