Hey ladies. My best friend has been dating her BF for over 4 years. She left him today after a pretty abusive night last night. She’s staying with her parents now, but is there anything I can send her to feel better? It’s so hard to see her go through something like this.

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I would send a care package of things you know she likes (chocolates, cookies, wine, candles, spa products, etc.) with a card or notes filled with words of support and encouragement. Exactly what you send isn't that important - she'll just be happy to know you're there for her and thinking of her.

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