Hi everyone - I’m just beginning my career and I’m very proud of the work I’ve done in accepting myself and living openly after having grown up Catholic. Through a lot of self-examination, I’ve started to realize the full extent of the trauma I experienced and held onto from growing up LGBT. I’m honestly surprised that this part of the process isn’t more talked about as it seems to be a relatively common experience. Are there any resources you’d recommend to help with this healing process?

Hello all, I need one advice.
I am working as SAP consultant for 3.6 years in same company now. I am going to make my first switch in one of the big 4 in SAP only.
The thing is that I don't really enjoy working in SAP. It was handed over to me when I joined my current WITCH company. Now I have decided to switch to Salesforce tech. For which I have already finished the Admin beginner part.(while staying in NP)
Please advise me if I am on the right track.

What is an appropriate salary for a 2nd year associate at a boutique entertainment law firm?

I’m looking for a mid-level copywriter to be my partner @ Grey NY. DM if interested !

What is notice period at LTI?

Which carrer option pays more, DevOps or Data Engineer?

This is a great strategy even before the understaffing issues in PA, but being mediocre or just above average so you don’t burn out from PA seems like the ultimate strategy right now. If you can wait it out then you pretty much just move up by default since people are leaving or not even going into to the profession. You’ll eventually be a partner unless your firm sells to private equity.

Anyone here with recent H1B Dropbox experience?

Anyone have any feedback or review on level 2 prep providers- I learn better by watching videos than by reading.
Mark meldrum vs Princeton review vs Nathan ronen

I would love it if as many of us as possible can go in-house, if only so the rest of us remaining can work with clients who actually know how things work and how they're produced.

Just me or do people who have not had Covid not understand the the seriousness of the long term fatigue one is left with.

My father (mid 50s) is interviewing for a new engineering role and is getting discouraged when he doesn’t hear back from the recruiter after a couple days have passed since last contact. My personal experience is that this is common (even when you are a strong candidate) and that he should only start getting concerned after 1-2 weeks have gone by without any word from the recruiter. Thoughts? I’d love to get him some info from others about this so he can relax a bit…

What is your go to business casual heel or shoe?

Heading to the Seattle for a few days next month for a work trip. Would love to meet up with a local to show me around. It’s my first time in the city.

Im a RN and took on a new role working in Home Health. I chose this position because My husband & I recently moved to PA with our 2 kids (1&3), with no family available for his residency program with a hospital. If you know that life, I’m pretty much the main parent for our kids. I don’t want to work in the hospital/floor work anymore; nor do I believe the hrs are flexible enough. I need a job that’s flexible for the kids but pays >$44/hr. Maybe remote or hybrid? Please help w/ suggestions.

Anyone want a ticket to World Series ?

I’ve worked until 4am the past two nights and gotten up at 8am. I can tell the partner is gearing up to have me pull another late night tonight. Any advice on how to decline and get some sleep tonight? I’m making so many careless errors and feel like 💩

I’m an IP associate (focused mainly on trademarks) in an AMLaw 200 firm (slightly below NY market pay) and I’m curious to know what IP groups (mainly trademark related practices) at V50 firms are like. My practice is relatively chill. No major fires to put out - steady and predictable 8-9 billable hours a day. I can generally not work on weekends. Am I at a unicorn shop or is this normal for Trademark practices?

Texting someone I met on a dating app and they are adamant that text messages can’t be admitted in court as evidence. I haven’t yet told them I’m a lawyer lol. They work in tech but of course, they know all about the rules of evidence because they studied criminology at community college. 🤯

Recommendations for things to do in st pete tampa. Food, fun activities, etc. Toddler friendly pls..thanks!!

Neck Pillows - Cabeau vs Trtl? And reason if possible

Who’s in DC for the long weekend?!

Leather pants. Yay or nay?

Bombas has their pride socks, underwear, and shirts out for this year. Expensive but love the quality of their products and that it is buy 1 donate 1 and every pride purchase supports LGBTQIA+ communities. Also, 20% off first order if you put in your email.

Any of you folks stray (ie cheat) / currently straying in a relationship? How’d it happen? Why’d it go down? Did you tell, etc?

I know there are a lot of people here that are in an open relationship - for y’all: did it ever cross over into something more than just physical?

I'm looking for a place to travel for a 5 day break in June. Want sunshine and warmth, don't care where except outside US & Canada. Recommendations place, and who is coming with!

Anyone from Boise, Idaho? Looking to move there for a new job. How is the gay scene like?

Heading to the Seattle for a few days next month for a work trip. Would love to meet up with a local to show me around. It’s my first time in the city.

Anyone at DU this week ?

Going to surprise my bf with a quick weekend trip in July for his birthday. Tulum or PV? Somewhere else tropical/beaches?

Should someone be fired for accidentally sending a naked selfie in the Slack channel?

Happy Pride Columbus 🏳️‍🌈

Consulting Hive lemme hear you 🐝

Anyone going to IAPP next week in D.C.?

Do you judge a coworker if you find out he is in an open relationship? Trying to decide if it is something I should try to hide or not 🤨

Anyone at Q Center in St Charles, IL this week?

I’m having a really hard time dating—would appreciate advice on how to find someone who makes me happy. Contemplating moving but am not sure if that is going to change things for me. Been in DC (cont)

So boyfriend wants to go to grad school (online) while retaining full time job. What’s the impact from risk assessment perspective?

Had a really intense 6 day fling with this guy who was visiting NYC for a week. Now he’s gone and I feel sad and longing for a relationship. Never had something like that before. Anyone else?

Any Nigerians here?

Have a fit interview coming up with one of the MBBs and I was thinking for my ‘biggest accomplishment’ question to talk about my coming out story. It genuinely is a big accomplishment considering my background but is it too personal? Thoughts?