Hi fishbowl people, just got the app and something has been bothering me lately and hope get your advise or opinion on my situation… would appreciate any inputs from fellow worker. I’ve joined a new job abt 10 months in now. In my first 2-3 months, I felt an overwhelming amount of red flags from my role and manager, but I held on. And now I feel it again and decided to speak to my mgr and instead of offering to help, she gaslighted me and basically isn’t taking any solid action to improve anyth.

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😭 hate that for you. if you’re comfortable with and trust your HR department, i’d raise your concerns to them and start applying for some other professional opportunities. my heart is with you! ❤️

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I had to deal with gaslighting in my old role, and it was the head of HR committing the crime. It's probably time to start looking. Sometimes, we work with amazing teams, but unfortunately not always. Good luck!

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