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Hello ladies,
Thought I would post this confusion here as some of u might have gone through it.
There is a guy that likes me since a quite long time but I haven't said Yes. He is patiently waiting for me to marry him.No Pressure on me.He is trying to build a career to make himself someone that he thinks I deserve.He owns a business,started it actually.I do have feelings for him but I am into IT n the place where he owns d business is not a kind of big IT hub.Although there are all the WITCH cmp there in that city.Not sure what to do.
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Don’t loose yourself in the guilt trip, but decide what’s your topmost priority. Ensure to prioritise considering all pros and cons and not just based on your dreams and goals. You will have answers.
Having a baby(no 1 or 2) will have impact on our career, which is inevitable. However, make the smart moves now, during mat leave and when you join back to safeguard your position. As you are a high performer it would speak volumes about your worth. They promoted you for the same reason. But don’t make it a reason for your guilt! We do all the hard work professionally to have a great personal life. So, choose your topmost priority and try to stay away from FOMO.
Thank you very much for your response.. I think I'll may be shorten my mat leave by 3 months so that I mantain the balance.. I do have a lot of support at home, so that won't be an issue..
Don't shorten it.. Use 6 months maternity leave..Your baby needs it. However, when you are back, make it worth. Be that top performer. Own critical areas and that will secure your job. Remove your guilt feeling be contributing something unique to your team.. May be something helpful for the other team members. Eg. Developing a tool that can be helpful and v reducing other people manual work..
I think it ok anyway you won't take leave immediately right you can plan and inform manager and HR later , i don't think you need feel guilty