Hi I am 23.8 year old earning decent salary of 1.23 lakh per month after taxes and no plan for higher studies and have savings around 12lakh.

What is the right to get marry for me?

I want thing fast in my life early children and retirement. If I married at early age and have children early. At age of around 50 I will be free of my children responsiblity and can live a normal life.

Any thought???

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Don't dream life will be abed of roses after you marry. Nothings goes as planned. There is a planner sitting above. All the best. Cheers

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Boss y to live like responsibility handling machine... Y to wait till 50 yr to live ur life to the fullest.. Live everyday na.. You are earning good save it invest it and marry once u find the right girl... Nobody can be very sure what will happen by u reach at the age of 50 .... So much money u saved then may be some need of money came for parents health.. Suppose 30 lakh then? Ur plan of getti g relief at the age of 50 gone.. And u ll regret u wasted time u didn't enjoy and u r now at the age of 44 with only 12 lakh saving again... So plan it but dont think of tht much farrrr...

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I have things planned out I have full health insurance cover for me and my family, each month I invest around 45K each month in mutual fund and other investment instruments,. The thing is I want everything to perfectly planned out. Everything done fast and quickly, if I want to enjoy life why should not with my children

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And here I thought life was something we can't control .
Congrats

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Never take life or marriage advice from engineer. They are the worst when it comes to life decisions.
If u feel u r ready for marriage then get married. I got married at 26 now a father of a daughter at 28.
But dont plan everything ahead. Enjoy the present dont fear the future

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Don't read other comments..marry ASAP

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Bro you have just started your life, Enjoy your life and when you feel to get settle only get married.Enjoy every moments, you won't get this energy at the age of 50.
Thanks!

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You sound too mechanical. Relax. Dont try to be such an intelligent planner. You need more experience from what I perceive from your words. I dont think you are ready for a family now.

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Good man..marry as early as possible..you earn well na..that is enough..

Accenture1. Can you check more with him first?
If you are married please share what changes will come after getting married?
Responsibility, money crunch.etc

One can never be ready for anything.. We can keep waiting..

That's some real aggresive planning

Yoe and tech stack?

Around 2 years, devops

It's good that you have everything planned already. Marriage life might be different from what you expect so just let the universe do its thing.

How much amount you think would be sufficient to live a normal life at the time of retirement ( as per you 50 yrs).

I think it's best you not get married until you are fully capable of taking care of your children. that is the number 1 priority. do not marry and have children if you are already thinking of getting rid of them that is just funny to me

If you really dont want to study further better to get married to person you really like, take time to find if you dont found already. Do not invest in real estate unless you have clarity that you will be living your next 5-10 years in that house. rental yields are very low and managing a property is mess you dont want to get involved. i bought property @23rd its not bad decision but i always think now that i would have been better if not got into it.
Have a vacation of your life atleast once!! once kids are around enjoying vacation can be tough. Waiting without any reason is bad advice its better overall if you complete your family in next year.

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