Hi Ladies! What does it mean when your boyfriend says “You are mine” and “You belong to me” . I don’t quite get what this guys has to say. We have been in this relationship for 4months now and he keeps joking about things like our future together etc although there hasn’t been any discussions around getting married. We have also discussed and agreed to be exclusive and dating just each other and no one else.

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If a guy ever said either of those to me, it would mean the end of that relationship real quick. Life is to damn short to deal with possessive jerks.

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Say, “Why do you say that” and then read up on signs of a potentially controlling/abusive relationship.

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He sounds possessive/creepy. Maybe he’s just wanting verbal affirmation I don’t know

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Ew

Context? Without knowing that, sounds like song Seal wrote for Heidi before they split.

This sounds like “love bombing” Tread carefully, that’s a big red flag.

Is your bf reading to many romance novels? 50 shades fan? Tbh I’ll be turned on if I hear that during sexy times coz I’m into the alpha man fantasy (and I know there are other girls out there like me) Just ask him.. maybe he thinks girls like it?

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