Hi there! Anyone have advice for dealing with a toxic team? Management is very sparse and attrition is high.. I’m leaning towards finding a new job because I’m getting nightmares about Zoom calls and work emails.

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Run. Fast and far away. High turnover says a lot about a company. There’s a reason others have left. It’s not worth dealing with a toxic environment when there’s so many job openings right now, take advantage of the employee market while it lasts.

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FYI it's NOT your job to fix the team!!! [Edit to add] OR do the partner(s) jobs!!!

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Dudeeee I was just promoted 3 months ago into a disorganized, toxic team and was also expected to fix all the problems here that I inherited due to incompetence at all levels. I put in my resignation and have never felt better about leaving a job.

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Omg that is wild.

Following this, because I'm in a similar place. I get nauseated at the thought of going to work.

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Run.

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I think the marketplace for good talent is at an all time high. It’s still a good time to get out there, especially if you’re in a toxic environment.

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I deal with toxic office managers. It’s horrible, I’m looking around. I try to not get it to me but I also have nightmares about filings and emails.

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It’s annoying because I like the attorneys but can’t stand the office managers that have no idea what they’re talking about. I also work in a National firm with people in different time zones. That expect to do things “that at due today” at 3 or 4 pm. I leave at 4 pm. I barely take lunch because they schedule meetings during my lunch time. I have to put my “out of office emails” every day because they forget I’m in a different time zone. And they don’t pay me enough to put emails in my phone. My office manager actually called at 5:30 pm for something “that was due today.” 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Find a new job. That’s what I did!

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Sounds stressful. Did you like the kind of work you did at your old firm? Have you started looking to see what other jobs may be available? It’s always hard to know what your going to get when you’re starting at a new place. It’s usually takes time for the less than desirable traits to pop up. It doesn’t mean it not worth trying to find a place that’s worth it.

Get a new job

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Run as fast as you can.

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