Home searching as I get ready to start my new BL job. What do you recommend, multi family or condo? I am single with no kids . Also did anyone have an offer accepted on the first how they saw? Do you regret that?

Also, do cover letters actually work??

I'm going from working at a non IT industry to an IT firm. As an introvert I've faced a lot of difficulty in my career... Now since I'm also shifting to another industry completely, I'm feeling very insecure about my life at work. Please give me tips on how to make friends and be in the good books of the managers.

When did you tell work you are pregnant? I’m at 13w now. Boss is nice and company is supportive just wasn’t sure what was standard and im generally cautious as this is my first. Planning to tell my friends and extended family in next week or two.

me: how can i help you today?
customer: can you get me a younger wife who talks less?
me: …

After 4 failed IVF cycles... we are thinking of building our family in a different way. How do folks get started with navigating the adoptions options and process? Are there adoptions counselors who can help us get started? (We’d like to do an international adoption)

When I started in this industry, it was all about radio and direct mail. Now, most are doing video content and influencer marketing. What do you think our children will be influenced by?

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅

I'm struggling emotionally and don't know how to cope with being a gay 22-year-old guy. I feel like half my life has been pretending to be straight, and I don't know how to talk to any guys my age anymore. How can I learn to be more open despite living in an older, more redneck part of Florida? I just want to feel like a person

He said he wouldn’t marry me unless I follow him back to his home country. Make the leap for love or don’t settle for someone who decides on geography over you?

I am having a CTC of 9 and getting married soon (she is not working). Is it going to be problematic for me? I am living in Bangalore but I am not very flashy or party guy.

I’m in need of some advice for my bridal shower. I’m trying to condense the list to help my mom & bridesmaids. We are inviting my fiancés coworkers and their significant others to the wedding. I’ve hung out with the couples a few times, but I wouldn’t say they are really friends outside of work events for him. Is it rude to not invite the wives to the shower? One of their husbands is in the wedding so I would invite her, but is it an all or no one situation?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

How do you and your significant other split expenses such as rent and eating at restaurants? We are in our late 20s, not married, she works in tech and makes ~$150k while I am an Associate making ~$400k. We split our $4500 rent based on income so I pay 70% rent and I pay for all meals at restaurants (we eat out ~4 meals per week lunch or dinner). Interested in hearing how you all split these expenses and how your income splits between your partner

Is a mid-tier firm better for people with children?

My old side piece and I have been over for a minute now. It was fun until we fell for each other. We are both 'happy'in our current relationships. We took a break from talking, it seemed like we were both still sensitive about the past and still have love for each other. Recently, he reached out and voiced that he wants to talk more. He video chat me, and now texts frequently. But he only texts when he's at work or in his car, when his girlfriend isn't around. Does this mean anything?

Caught this on another r thread and it's too funny not to repost. Do you have the right to be mad if your "office gf" aka work wife is cheating on you?

I have 1 one year old and have told my husband that I want to get divorced. He is being immature about the process and is just trying to make everything difficult. Sometimes he says he will move out, then he says the baby and I should, sometimes he says he wants custody when the real reason im leaving is his lack of interest amd resppnsibility toward our family. I can tell he is hurt and is upset that i dont love him anymore and want to get everything ready to make the exit easy. How do I start?

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

How to constructively talk about the long term future with SO? We (both 26) have been together 6 years with the last 3 as LDR. We are supposed to be moving in together over the summer, but given she is moving across state lines I don’t think this should be a light decision. It’s reaching the point that if we don’t move in I don’t think we should continue dating and I also don’t want her to move in without talking in detail about core relationship topics (marriage, finances, etc).

What are your plans for taking care of your parents ,if they are not in the US? My parents are doing great, but there will be time when they will need my help (not just financially)

Do you foresee getting them up here ? Or spend more time in the subcontinent when we get to that point ? Just curious to hear from our community. Bane of being an immigrant!

any good resume templates for a consulting to buy side move?

How do you and your significant other split expenses such as rent and eating at restaurants? We are in our late 20s, not married, she works in tech and makes ~$150k while I am an Associate making ~$400k. We split our $4500 rent based on income so I pay 70% rent and I pay for all meals at restaurants (we eat out ~4 meals per week lunch or dinner). Interested in hearing how you all split these expenses and how your income splits between your partner

1) What is the best suggestion to start a business ?
2) Do we need to do some pre requisites before starting a business ?
3) Do we need to go for franchise or own labelling ?
4) What are the things that business needs to be started like GST ?
5) what are the best businesses that we look at ?

Please give your valuable suggestions. Thank you fishes

What is the value in professional certifications? ACCA, CFA, CIPD, etc.

So incredibly unmotivated and hating everyone today.

Any L1A/L1Bs running out of time?

Do you all have some resource recommendations for upper level math? Specifically for Algebra II and higher? I've used Khan, TPT, and desmos before. I look at Pinterest for ideas, but what are some of your go-to's for those that teach it.

Is there any chance to postpone the joining date once the offer letter is released

Likelihood of joining PE after working at portfolio company in FP&A role

Used to work at JPMC in a compliance role. Left for a few years. Interviewing for a WM KYC Onboarding Officer Associate position but have yet to speak to HR. Have interviewed with hiring manager and interviewing with ED today. The position wants 5 years of experience. Worried about the salary. Anyone know the range? Glassdoor and other places have it all over the place

Medical doctor looking to move into management consulting. Anyone can help with a referral/job posting for firms that are recruiting. Been applying to different firms for months, but haven't heard back from any. Would appreciate any help!

Hello folks,

Which tool do you use in case of signing offer letter digitally?

Thanks in advanced

Thoughts on Zuya, re: cookieless targeting/cookieless future?

Or just ... cookieless future in general?

Folks, what is the average salary of an Assistant Manager working in PwC Singapore for the assurance domain and how is the work life balance? Any inputs on the average monthly expenses for one person(with and without rent) would be great as well.

How is the Sap practice at Kpmg?

Soooo can we talk about the Maxwell verdict

What is the typical salary for 1 year associate in ATL? Just looking for a range.

Advice for senior associate laterals? I’m a 6th year (F) starting at a new firm Monday and wondering what advice people have.

Has anyone on here or know of anyone who left law for a different career? Happier? Full of regret?

Is PPP just a function of leverage?

How do you all stay perfect and free from typos when the workload and pressure adds up? I do my best to keep up but I keep making little mistakes. I’m both positive and motivated to improve my attention to detail but damn those mistakes make me feel so idiotic. Advice?

Do people that bill 200+ hours a month just have literally no life???

Does anyone have recommendations for a recruiter in the Raleigh, NC area?

Looking to start a new job after the first of the year. When should I start applying? I’m hoping to transition out of plaintiffs work and into prosecution.

I’m a partner level attorney, I was on a call with a law firm who I was considering joining. They called my practice “the Wild West” (venture capital) and that their practice (33 act) was more civilized and formal. I just hung up and ended the call.

Question to all the specialists who work on corporate deals: totally get that you get requests to review and comment all the time and to do so on crazy deadlines. Is there anything general corporate teams can do to make these requests better (other than extending deadlines or not asking you for deal support altogether).

Am I making enough profit for my firm?

I became a 2 year lawyer in September. I started working at my firm, a mid-sized firm practicing commercial business litigation and PI, in March of 2020. Last year I made the firm $180k from my billable hours and I was paid $85k + full health and other benefits.

This year, I'm on track to make about $150k and to make the firm about $450k from my billable hours and PI cases that I originated and settled.

Trying to do right for my firm. I'm treated well.

I'm transitioning from my firm job to a fellowship. I'm leaving (after 6 months) because I hate my job. Hate it to the point that I wake up hours early to convince myself to go in. I can barely get my work done while in the office. Any advice on how to stick it out until I leave?

Has anyone had luck negotiating a fully remote position for a firm that's hybrid? Firm is the next city over and would be a 2 hour+ commute round trip and I really don't want to do that more than a couple times a month.

I added a well recognized litigator in my area at a top firm on LinkedIn... reason being is that I’m a first year in litigation and hope to accomplish at least half the things he has in my career. So it’s interesting to see his takes on things when he engages on a post.

I’m tempted to send him a personal message, not for a job or anything, but honestly just to ask “how he did it” and what advice he might give.

Is there any harm in this? Don’t wanna be annoying.

For those of you who respond to emails saying you will “revert back” instead of just “revert”, what’s going on here? Do you have a word count you’re trying to meet?

Was asked what my salary expectations were on an Interview and I blurted out a number that was only $5k higher than the offer they made me a few days later. Any advice on how I should negotiate?

Offer letter stated independent contractor with 401k eligibility after 1 yr. Almost 2 years in, just having 401k meeting after months of inquiring. Reviewed plan docs. I.C.s are ineligible. Thoughts?