Honest question for the ladies. Do you consider subbing to onlyfans cheating?

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If your partner isn’t in the know and agrees to it, then yes it’s cheating.


I certainly wouldn’t be okay with my gf subbing to a man or woman’s onlyfans, ESPECIALLY if they know them personally.

Yes. Unless you guys had a mutual agreement

Yes, I would probably break up over that personally

Wouldn’t be happy with it

Yeah- I know a pair of friends this happened to where he subscribed and it ruined her, they were dating for years and she got VERY upset about it.

Yes! Even though it technically wouldn’t be considered “cheating”, I feel it completely disrespects the relationship. I also think it’s beneficial to lay out boundaries in a relationship before getting too serious, and this for sure would be crossing the line for me!

What does subbing mean? As in they tag-team into the action? I’m not familiar with OnlyFans (obv I know what it is), what’s the difference between OF and porn?

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