Honest question to those affinity groups that have a designated month to celebrate - I’ll use the LGBTQ community as an example as we wrap up Pride month. How would you feel about your MD or Partner using a teams or zoom background with the rainbow flag in celebration of Pride if you know they are not part of the community? I think they are trying to be an inclusive leader or make others feel welcome, but wondering if others think it’s a token check the box action?

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You don’t need to be part of the community to celebrate their progress or acknowledge their struggles

Even if they are checking the box, it is still creating awareness. As long as they are not hypocritical about it ( checking the box and then express opposite opinions on the side)

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It’s called being an ally

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Personally (as a fellow 🏳️‍🌈) I would find it endearing and reassuring

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It certainly wouldn’t bother me. I probably wouldn’t think anything of it at all.

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Isn’t the whole point of these dedicated months to raise awareness and celebrate it, even if you don’t identify as it? It seems pretty counterintuitive if you had to pass a test and prove you’re 🏳️‍🌈 in order to use the materials meant for distribution? (Email signatures, zoom backgrounds, etc.)

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“If you can prove you do gay stuff you can earn this MS Teams background”

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As a queer person who hates being showy, and who has seen people including straight allies do this, I think “that’s a lot going on there, huh. Very…bright. Oh sh— I wasn’t paying attention, what did they say?” And then move on.
My personal style and preferences have me thinking it’s cringey, but I think that anytime someone has a neon bright virtual background because I’m judgy af lol
It doesn’t do anything good or bad for me, individually. But I’m all for corporate performances of allyship if it helps even one person feel more comfortable.

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I would feel nothing. Stop looking for a reason to be offended. They literally have good intentions doing that and you’re looking for a way to make it inappropriate??

Sincerely, a proud member of the community

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It was unthinkable when I was coming out ~2000 that a straight person would ever associate themselves with a rainbow flag. I sometimes get teary when I see someone I respect wearing a rainbow pin, etc.

Other communities (race/ethnicity based) might feel differently, I don’t know. Though I can’t see why someone would find the need to object to having “their” month recognized and celebrated.

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Agreed! As long as it’s genuine and the same person isn’t super problematic the other 11 months, I think it’s nice, promotes awareness, and would make me feel a bit better about the culture

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Quick answers. Thanks everyone!! 💜

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I think it’s cringy virtue signaling most of the time. Key word “most”. Pride month may not be the best example here.

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How do you know they’re not part of the community? I’m “straight passing” because I’m currently with a man but I’m bisexual and consider myself part of the community. You’re making assumptions about their sexuality.

Allies don’t have to be lgbtq. The point is that it’s inclusive not exclusive

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