Honestly not trying to throw shade at China but this is something I can totally saw my Chinese family doing - “hey can you please delay this critical thing so I don’t lose face?” 😂🤣

Is renthop legit? I see many more listings meeting my criteria than streeteasy. Some updated very recently too, so unlikely to just be outdated

Interested in benchmarking salaries in Risk Assurance across firms. What’s your level and base salary (excluding VC)? I’ll go first: Director and 155k

Pros/cons of becoming a partner at a private vs public firm, in terms of $, growth, influence/autonomy, politics, etc.

I’m just not sure what to do anymore. I’m having the hardest time finding a job. I’m stuck in the small agency world and I wanted to move to bigger agency. I’m feeling like I’m never going to (ctd)

Any insights on salary/comp band for a global tech company (not google,fb) in house CD/‘Creative Lead’ role? I have a guess from research but wanted to ask here for real talk. Hoping I can come in with a strong base...

How long does coforge take in order to release the offer?

If you have a lace wedding dress, would you get a lace veil or a beaded one? It's been hard trying to find similar/exact lace.

Mentioned to my boss this week that I had reached burnout & that I was beginning to consider my options. I have received offers recently 50K above what I make now & communicated that. On Friday they said their boss would be touching base with me next week. I am in above average standing with the company & received a good annual raise earlier this year. The issue is I took the job below my market value to get out of a much worse job 2 years ago. Realistic outcomes for my upcoming meeting?

What is a useful, comprehensive but not too long of a book for parenting toddlers?

LO is 16 months old, very sweet and social, at the park every day with other kids with either me or her nanny. Not in day care. Yesterday we had a play date and she slapped another baby on the head. Not hard and did not scare her, but the act of “aggression” took me by surprise and I felt terrible about it. I’d like to be more proactive about toddler psychology, what’s to come and how to react/ teach. TY!

I am going to join Publicis Sapient in few days .
One question I got either I will get desktop or laptop??

Being alone can suck sometimes.

How do you index match (or vlookup) on multiple columns when you have a few thousand rows? I have like 3 things criteria I want to match and doing this manually kinda sucks right now.

Just lost my 2nd H1b lottery. Have 1 year left on visa and 1 lottery left. Do any firms out there sponsor for Greencard before you have an H1b? Assuming it’d be very hard for me to get someone to sponsor me for H1b with only one year OPT left given the lottery, but maybe GC would be possible since it’s higher likelihood of approval?

What could be the take home if the fixed salary is 32Lpa?
Do we get any shift allowance?
And how s bonus and bonus percentage decided during appraisal ?

I’m suffering from depression (and anxiety) and recently started seeing a therapist. My doctor prescribed me an antidepressant (escitalopram - generic lexapro) but I’ve been afraid to take it. Anyone have insight on starting an antidepressant? Anyone regret starting one?

Interested in trust and safety! Anyone know resources and how to get into these roles at FAANG + companies?

Very random...has anyone ever tried the frozen Mille crepe cake from Touched?

Taking my mom and aunt to LA for a 4 day trip. Anyone have suggestions on where to see / go? They’re both non-English speaking, not good with excessive / long periods of standing or walking, not(cont)

Taking GMAT in 4 weeks. Target schools in order are 1) NYU 2) Columbia 3) MIT 4) Haas. Rank blasphemy I know but I want exposure to luxury retail industry. What score as an Asian American would you call safe / no retake required? Right now I’m thinking 730+ but would like other thoughts. Also, should I reschedule and push out? For reference, I scored a practice exam 600 4 weeks ago and 700 2 weeks ago. Doing a 3rd practice exam this weekend after honing on probability and tricky geometry

Anyone else quarantining with their parents/family and going insane? Can’t handle mom’s verbal abuse to me and my dad much longer

If you have a “no shoes in the house” rule, do you also have a “no bare feet outside” rule? That seems like the same thing to me but I’m curious if you all see it that way too..

Watching Biden inauguration, his body guard is Asian if you noticed

Ladies,

Getting the gf a Dyson air wrap for a gift. She’s mentioned she wanted to curl her hair but her mom’s never taught her how. Can ya’ll share some tips, videos, or product that helps keep the curl throughout the day that I can get pass on? She’s a beaut with medium length straight, thin hair and colors often. I’ve been trying to research but a lot of the gals have the thick Korean hair which isn’t applicable.

Any help is appreciated 😞

Anyone here have parents with small businesses? I understand the language barrier, but my dad refuses to apply to loans / grants because it’s too much work. I am more than willing to help, but he has such a dismissive attitude and expects me to do magically do everything.

Anyone have book recommendations that have either made a significant impact on your life or have recently inspired you in some way?

Alright, convo about Asian glow. I know many of us hate turning red in business and social events. Does anyone also experience their scars turning bright red?

My acne scars (even years-old) turn bright red and it’s super embarrassing / shameful for me. Other than Pepcid, do y’all have recs for covering them up? Regular foundation and concealer doesn’t work for mine.

Looking for a referral into a strategy role.. currently M at a smaller mid market firm, getting bored of the tactical work. not having much luck in the exit bowl. Any help would be much appreciated!

Does anyone have tips for online dating?

I’m torn. I just got a nice offer at MSFT. A good 30% bump and much better WLB. I’m married with toddler. Current firm I’m a rising star. Likely to get promoted /w same TC. Huge executive presence. Helped firm to win partner tech awards. I was recognized individually as well. What prompted to look was I’m sick of client delivery. It would be nice to be on the other side and coast but I’m scared I’m leaving too much on the table at current firm. Current pace I’m mentally exhausted and not happy.

Anyone else get birthday blues? Mine is tomorrow and I remember the first time I felt this way was in college...and every year since (38 tomorrow), I always get a little sad thinking of the things I didn’t do. I have a wonderful marriage, achieved 1M NW despite starting a bit late, traveled a ton when I was younger, had a beautiful boy with my amazingly supportive husband. I should not feel blue on my birthday but it’s the one day a year I feel a little depressed. I imagine this has to do...

At what age is it appropriate to give red envelopes to your parents? I know it varies based on everyone’s income/situation but would like to hear some personal experience