How are you doing mother of the bride/groom dresses? Are you giving them a color? Letting them choose?

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I went shopping with my mom and her expression and body language when she found “the one” was so adorable I couldn’t have said no even if it was completely outside of the color scheme. My mom doesn’t dress up and was so nervous about it. I’m just so happy she found something she not only feels comfortable in, but feels beautiful in at 74.

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Aww this is really sweet. I want this same moment with my mom!

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I let them pick but they’ve sent me so many options (each) I wish I had narrowed it down to start 😭

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Same 😭

I’m letting them choose but they’ve consulted with me

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