How can I find the will to keep living?
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Is it easy to find a subleasee in LA? Planning to leave LA soon but wondering if it's hard to find one which has a good credit record. (Owner does not allow early termination) Price is pretty good compared to the current market rate and the apartment is fully occupied.

If both you and your spouse have massive student loan debt and are making student loan payments on the income based plan... do you file your taxes jointly or separately?

Does United have something similar to SWUs (American)?? Would trade American for United if it’s similar!

At what age did you first make 6 figures??

[opinion] What will be the impact of recession indicators/ sentiment on bitcoin price over the next 3-6months?

In nyc does it make sense to do a regular 401k or Roth 401k. 25 years old making 140k

The stock markets seem to be reaching new highs everyday and are bound for a correction. Do you think it would be wise to hold off on further investments till the market corrects the valuations ?

🆘 I was an inter at Leo Burnett Chicago in 2018. Im doing taxes and I can’t find my W2. Does anyone know who I can contact to get the form today?🆘

Classic confusion of buying vs renting. Specially knowing the NJ property taxes are highest in the country. I would love to know your perspective.

Why so red? Any stocks good to buy now?

How do you get past the 10th mortgage? I’m trying to buy an 11th property and I’m maxed out. Has anyone been in this? How did you manage?

Planning to leave the firm, should I take vacation days now or should I accumulate for a big payout? Considering tax, is it worth it?

If I were to invest $1000 today, would ADA be a good place to spend the money? Heard great things about it, but interested in knowing if this is the right time or if I’m late.

My ctc shows 10lpa + 20lac esops. But I'm not sure if I'll get this 20lac stocks for free or do i need to buy them by paying? Distribution is 4lac per year for 4 years. Pls explain.

Thoughts on Telcoin? I'm trying to open an account with the app to buy some but I keep getting an error. Wondering if it's worth the effort.

What’s the most equitable way to split rent and finances (e.g., living expenses, going out together) when considering moving in with an SO who is in graduate school and has no real source of income?

Did anyone else get a ridiculous rent increase this year?

Up 72% in coinbase acct

What things *can you negotiate when purchasing a new car? What things *should you negotiate always? Any differences in negotiation approach when buying used? Seems like I can afford considerably less, given the current interest rates 😭 Currently financing a car at 1.9% and it's killing me to buy, but I've had nothing but issues with the used car I bought.

“We had complimenting genitalia.”

Hi any update on TCS 2025 model or how will it be .
It won't be implemented at all? Even hotdesk options are getting limited now only 1-2 offices have hotdesk options.

Anyone did the shift between Deloitte to KPMG in London at the SC/M level? Anything to watch out for?

Interesting. Interviewing at MBB, but got recruiter level rejections at Big4. Strange times indeed.

Looking for feedback, I'm updating my resume and I'm wondering at what point should I start removing past work experience. I've heard anything older than 10 years should go?

Thoughts on SPHR vs SPHRi? I have PHR currently. Current company is growing internationally so I'm debating which route to go.

Folks, has anyone shipped jewelry from India to USA. How did you go about? Was it just a FedEx/DHL shipment?

What is the cheapest way to keep an indian mobile number active while I'm in US?
My old jio number got inactive after an year of being in US.
Require an indian mobile number for getting otp for bank/internet payments as well as while visiting India .
Any suggestions?

Laid off and looking for a new full-time or contract UI/UX Design role. I have 10+ years of experience. Skilled in responsive web design, mobile, prototyping and a background in front-end development.

How is the year going for you? Let me know below and see a resource I am offering!

Can anyone please help me understand what are the roles and responsibilities of a Principal Business Analyst and how is this role different from Senior Business Analyst? Also, would appreciate tips to crack the Principal Business Analyst interview. Thank you

Hi everyone, I saw someone post about an AWS referral. I just applied for 2 positions, any tips or suggestions if I receive a follow up?

I currently support 7 Execs for $52k fully remote. What should I expect the pay for this role to be? It says it is supporting roughly 3 CFOs or similar. Thank you!

Hi Fishes,

Its been 2 months I have joined NTT DATA. But I am not interested in the project and the type of work here.
I am thinking to find a better opportunity in another company. Can I put my resignation after 3-4 months of joining? What could be the negetive impacts here?

Best job to get to transition into HR?

Does anyone know where to start in HR please?

My goal role in 5 years let’s say is Chief People Officer / People & Culture Director, etc.

My background is 12+ years in customer/client experience, coaching, sales, and account management. I’m finishing a Lv7 executive coaching course and starting a CIPD Lv5 people management course.

Any ideas on what roles I can start with? Don’t care if it’s a simple role, getting in with a good company is important.

Hello,
I have recently received offer from Citi for Mumbai location. Wanted to know whether the hybrid model of working is going to be permanent or is for time being. I will have to commute to the work location with odd timings 10am-1pm if wfh is not available.

Feeling extremely low. Wondering if any fellow fish can hear me out.

What “self help” books are you guys reading? I just read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and wow, I want to start from the beginning again, but feel like I should read something else. Would love any suggestions.

Anyone have any luck with modafinil? Thinking about giving it a go. Maybe start with half a 💊

How has therapy changed you?

I feel like I’m very opinionated and clash with others (mainly my family...) and i just want to talk through with someone on how to be less defensive. I know i take everything personally because it stems from childhood experiences and i just need to break that habit.

Also what kind of therapist am i supposed to look for? First timer here, and not sure what to expect or even look for in a therapist. Or even how to begin the search 😂

I’m so incredibly burnt out—I’ve been going to sleep at 3 am and waking up at 7. I’m working 16 hour days consistently, and on Friday through Saturday I literally pulled an all nighter (until 11 am) to work. I don’t have time to make friends, let alone hang out with them, and all of my partner’s free time lately has been helping me stay afloat. I told myself I wouldn’t quit before busy season ends in March and put my team in a bad spot, but I honestly don’t know if I can make it to then.

What happens in therapy sessions? How did they help you? How did you express your objectives, other than "help me feel better"?

Does anyone else ever feel like they wish something would happen and they would just die a martyr? I have no intention of self harm but I’ve been depressed for exactly half of my life this year and I’ve made so many wrong choices. I’m just so tired.

A partner just called me screaming at me for a mistake that I didn’t make - yelling “are you calling me a liar?” at the top of his lungs. My mom heard it. Having a panic attack. What do I do next?

See a therapist. Talking about it in person helps.

So after being thrown around like a ball at work, I finally got an offer from another company and accepted it. I’m stuck in the immigration process which is at least 2 months. I want to take back my..

Literally hate my job. Everyday it gets worse. They’re trying to make it better but it’s not. I’m waiting on a written offer, it’s been 2 weeks and nothing. I have interviews coming up. don’t think I can afford to quit. Especially with health insurance. Idk what I’m gonna do. I have a car loan to pay. I still live at home but I don’t make enough to move out. I REALLY WANT TO QUIT.I’m praying anything can help me. I’m on lexapro, otherwise if I wasn’t I’d prob have ten panic attacks by now.

I really hope I could have a more positive attitude🤣I know there are many people actively looking for better opportunities, to make more money, or to do something they truly like…. I always feel I have too many concern, my health, my visa, and my family. Additionally, I don’t know if I truly want to make the change or I am just trying to run away.

Idk if it’s from the years of mental/emotional abuse or lack of boundaries / respect, but seeing my family has become awkward and tough. I went home for dinner today and just like other times - we don’t talk or I have to force conversation (so plans this weekend or what you do this week). I’m the oldest and trying to set an example for my sister but it’s tough. Idk if anyone else can relate. I legit came over for 1.5 hrs and left.

I feel like I am never taken seriously by people at work (left out of the loop on things, ignored, spoken over). I guess it must be some vibe I am giving out, but I don't know how to fix 😞

Work has been non-stop, seven days a week work, this week already has a ton of full days ahead, and my ex let me know today she’s started seeing someone new. How does everyone cope with life and work raining down in waves?

Having an absolute panic attack over nothing. Heart racing, dry mouth, feelings of terror. Sucks to realize there’s no one I can call to talk about this. Just trying to breathe it out

Why am I extra depressed on fridays? What type of human is depressed on Fridays 😩