How did you get over your ex? I find it very hard especially during quarantine.

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also don’t wanna resent/hate him but I feel that might be easier than thinking of all the good times and giving myself false expectations

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

It’s okay. I think under normal circumstances I would definitely agree and laugh. It’s just a bit tough right now. Thank you for showing empathy BCG1.

How long do you think is acceptable before you get out there? I feel like I’m struggling to answer for myself how soon is too soon.

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