Desi guys- If a girl liked you at work, how would you prefer them approach you without coming off as weird or creepy or leading you to call HR and file a compaint?
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What is Planning engineer or manager Salary in Delhi NCR for EPC company 15 plus years of experience
Kristen Weller post on Linkedin
What do we think some safe havens or even areas that might perform better in a recession might be? Gold just seems boring
Does anyone know what is the TC range for an AD in tech? Got an offer with a 155 base. I’m new to tech and not sure what room do I have for negotiation.
I’m currently in civil litigation but I’ve always loved the criminal defense law world. Does it make sense to go to a PD office to get trial experience to get my foot back in the criminal door?
Is there a Partners only bowl?
I got offer from Genpact as Lead Consultant for Morgan Stanley project. Technology stack is Java, Database. Exp is 5 years. Could you please tell about WLB and Job Security. Your comments will be appreciated😊🙏Genpact
Design exercises 😵
It’s been a few years since I last interviewed, so I’m hoping for quick impressions. It’s still considered bad practice for companies to ask for take home design exercises (any length) that relate to the company’s actual products, right? Aka free work.
This is a senior+ role.
Got 2 offers:
Lucidworks - 33
Boeing - 35(Verbal offer after countered them with lucidworks offer).
Now with freshworks, last round is pending.
Let me know what would be better.
From interview perspective, I enjoyed lucidworks interview as the interviews taken by quality people compared to other two companies. But it is a startup.
Btw, I have been interviewed for 6 rounds in Citrix and waiting to hear from them.
Any high-caliber PMs out there with serious data, app dev, and biddable media exp. Have got a couple of roles in NY or Chi on a very dynamic, integrated piece of biz. 5+ yrs for one role, 10+ for the other.
Rick Condos fired from Argonaut?
How do you start your concepting process?
I have seen a lot of people in my network recently getting “Salesforce Interviewer Certified”. I looked online, but did not see the certification available anywhere or Trail to complete.
Anyone have any guidance on how to proceed forward here? Thank you!
Average corporate slave 😆
When an introvert opens a shop
What days do you have off this week and next for the holidays? Anyone making extra money working over the weekend? I'm so exhausted and disappointed that this years holidays fall on non-work days 😭.
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For those of you without a home office: Where do you usually work? My desk is in my bedroom and I’m considering sacrificing aesthetic to move my set up elsewhere
Whenever the cops gun down an innocent black man… they always say the same thing, man. They always say the same thing. It’s like, “Well, it’s not most cops. It’s just a few bad apples.” It’s just a few bad apples. Bad apple? That’s a lovely name for a murderer. It’s like, how’d they get that one? “Bad apple?” That almost sounds nice. I mean, I’ve had a bad apple. It was tart. But it didn’t choke me out.
Here’s the thing. Here’s the thing. I know it’s hard being a cop....Cont
Just a rant but earlier I asked my boss if they would reimburse me for registration costs (less than $100) for an upcoming alumni networking event, and he flatly said no since it is "not a conference that the company typically attends" so I would have to bear the expenses, or speak to the COO for approval. Finding it hard to respond politely now.
So far, no mass exodus in STL… 🤷🏽♀️ https://news.stlpublicradio.org/coronavirus/2021-10-12/as-covid-19-vaccination-deadlines-pass-st-louis-hospitals-say-most-workers-complied
Moving to SF in a few weeks - any recommendations on areas to live? I’ve been looking at Russian Hill, Marina, Nob Hill. Are they safe? Should I look farther away and not live in the city? Would love any advice as I don’t know anyone living there now.
Any recommendations for a smoothie blender? I’ve tried a NutriBullet and a MagicBullet and they each lasted about a year, though I wouldn’t be opposed to trying either of them again. But figured maybe there’s something better out there. Thanks!!
Any expats on here currently living or have lived in Singapore? Would love to hear peoples' opinions. COL seems to be pretty on par with Manhattan.
Reactive dog: ♾
Too many bad days in a row and feeling super defeated with training. Vent session over.
http://juryverdicts.net/GetPeopleKilled.pdf. TRO out of western district Kentucky allowing drive in Easter services (I am not responsible for the pdf name!!) controversy over heavily cited Bible verses & ABA rated unqualified judge
I just finished Shoe Dog. It was a great book about Phil Knight’s entrepreneurship journey, but came up short on Jordan influence and brand story. Does anyone know any books specifically about the Jordan brand?
Can the vast majority of 🐠 stop acting like they know all the answers on how to socially and economically deal w/ a global pandemic? News Flash: nobody does, incl. you so try exercising some humility.
Question for my fellow introverts. Post coronavirus, would you attend a meetup for introverts? Id like to start a group on the site 'meetup' for introverts where <10 people would meet up for a beer or glass of wine and get to know each other & have meaningful conversations. I think theres a misconception that introverts dont enjoy socializing/meeting new people. We do! We just need a safe space with fewer people and a little less noise. Would love to hear your thoughts/insights 🙃
I got an offer from Marcum LLP as a first year assurance associate in the Bay Area - is it typical to be paid hourly? It says I’m eligible for overtime. Also curious what typical starting salary should be in the Bay Area?
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You'll never really know if you made the best decision because we can't live in a parallel reality where a different decision was made. So just make the decision with the information you got and do that over and over again.
Think about it this way. You may have been making suboptimal decisions your whole life and overall you're doing alright in life. It could always be worse and it could always be better. You'll never know.
So don't let what you can't control, control you. You'll be ok.
One of the biggest factors to take into account is breaking up the decision into “what part of this can I control” and only worrying about that piece.
You can’t control how others will act or react or how other things may play out so don’t worry about those aspects (or try not to at least!).
Practicing mindfulness. Seriously. Using headspace meditation sessions consistently (5-10 minutes per day) really helped me be able to push aside unnecessary thoughts.
I will try it out! Thank you
Cognitive behavioural therapy works wonders for this
I tried doing therapy but the therapist jept making me to worksheets and I couldn't see the point in that. Maybe I should have switched therapists
Focus only on the things you can control, not things that are done and over with. Challenge your thoughts with reassuring facts and then distract yourself. Also look up ABC method of CBT
Meditate for 20 minutes everyday for 20 days in a row and your life will change. Also EXERCISE!!!
OP, it doesn’t have to be a major commitment that overwhelms you. It could be 5 min of meditation or simply trying to incorporate mindfulness into your day to day whenever you’re able to. For example, go for a walk without your phone and try to pay attention to all your senses (smells, look around, feel your joints as you slowly walk, etc). Or slow down when you’re eating to focus on the textures, smells, taste of your food Etc.
The idea is to slow down and be present as much as you can. Doesn’t have to be perfect but find ways to ground yourself and stay in the now.
I’m an avid list maker and it’s helped me immensely. I make a pro/con list for decisions I’m about to make that I know will cause me anxiety (e.g. moving apartments). When I make a decision that stresses me out I write down which parts of that decision I can control. A lot of the time the anxiety stems from the unknowns. Figure out what those unknowns are (e.g. is she mad I said that?) and look at what will help you feel less anxious about it, if any (e.g. should I ask her to have a discussion with me later? Will this still affect me later? What are the implications of bringing it back up?). Then pro/con it.
Or make an effort to ignore the unknowns entirely and only address them if they come up. Worrying shows you’re a conscious, empathetic person. Lean into your actions and remember the adage “don’t ask for permission— ask for forgiveness.” Ask people for feedback rather than trying to guess or being haunted by the unknown.
I’ve heard mindfulness helps, too, and getting exercise and good sleep. All of these things can help you relieve anxiety. If this fails, maybe try therapy?
What’s the context? For ex, do you over think/over analyze with people (like your boss) or directly with your work (e.g. client deliverable) ?
Everything. From ex to getting braces to how should i have approached a conversation i had with a friend
Learn to trust. In your partner, in your colleagues, in a higher power, in life. That helped for me.