How do other lesbians find each other? I’ve been dating for a couple of years now and I get matches on apps but even then the convo dies out. I’m not sure how to date women and all I want to do is find love😂

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Just ask them out for drinks. Pen pals don’t work

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+1 for this. Years ago, my Tinder conversation with my now partner almost fizzled out completely. I shudder to think about if that might have happened and we gave up or lost contact… We just cut to the chase, went on a date, and had/have amazing chemistry in person

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Lesbian bars? LGBT sports leagues? LGBT churches? So many options out of the virtual world…

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Meetups? There are tons of meetups.

At work. I dated several women from work and then found the one.

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No flex ZONE. Jk.

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What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

Talking to a guy who’s 16 years older than me. Thoughts? Advice?

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So, this is a little awkward, but I recently moved to SD for a fresh start, and honestly, I love this city. My problem is I have been more of a homebody since I moved here and I'm a little intimidated to go out and meet people because I don't feel like I fit in here. I am overweight and this city is full of active, and attractive people. I guess I am wondering what my experience would be if I got out more? I feel like people look at me when I'm in public because I stand out due to my size.

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Sub no date vs DJ 41 vs exp 1 as my first rolex watch?
Leaning on sub due to versatility and planning on wearing everyday. Love to hear opinions from experience watch lovers here.

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My friend invited me to hang out with her and her friends because I was feeling very sad about my breakup. Three of her friends end up hitting on me and just really invading my personal space. I honestly thought they had a joke or game of some sort. I tell my friend it makes me uncomfortable because it’s not something I’m looking for atm. She says I should take it as a compliment, but the only thing I feel is disgust that I now have to look forward to guys only wanting me for my body 😔

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25 F 🐠 anyone free for a drink in midtown?

An honest confession. I am 35 years old female, married to a guy and have 1.5 year old son. I know I like females and often have those dreams where I see myself with some female or the other. Contd..

Anyone here in a book club - late 20s/30s age group?

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Looking to move on, M 35 in NY if any F interested in hanging out DM me

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Thought of moving in with my date. Searched nearly so many flats near Velachery, Guindy, KK Nager. Nobody were ready to lend a flat for unmarried couples. Like why? I don't really understand why Chennai is still backwards. I'm sure this wouldn't be the case with banglore.
Still searching and no luck :/

Any female fish willing to give some advice?

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Any females for weekend casual meet ?

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27M, Pakistani, 5’11, Pakistani, Philly

Funny [looking] guy looking for girl for marriage

Must be kind, soft hearted, warm, empathetic, intuitive, creative, passionate, wholesome, have ‘practical life experience’

Random keywords: Muslim, Sunni, plant dad, socks and sandals, Pakistani food > , laying in parks, overanalyzing movies and music, collecting credit card rewards points, Spotify playlists, long drives

Work: Supply Chain Consultant

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Should married men ask female coworkers out for coffee/drinks/lunch?

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I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

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Staff 1 dated a work paper 11/31.. 😐

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If I get 6 packs but maintain a horrible personality, will all the guys come to me and date me?

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Shall we start with an ASL and 2-3 lines about your hobbies aka the stuff you ACTUALLY do regularly n enjoy, and not just bs/nice-to-read things? If yes, then get on to posting. (Dont comment on my post, yall need that visibility my fellow singles!)

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Any single male 🐟🐠 want to meet up for coffee?

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My family/friends ask me for store discounts all the time. It's really uncomfortable to say no, but I have to. Any tips on how to handle these conversations?

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Best recruiter for restructuring?

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Do you guys provide any suggestions how he can switch industry? Is there any specific course he can do for come into IT industry? Does anyone of you done this before?

You feedback is really valuable.

New Biz friends! Is anyone hiring for AE level New Business roles in NYC? I’ve done some LinkedIn and company-specific searches but you never know what’s not published. Thanks in advance

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Anyone know any companies hiring for remote only admins?

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Curious how Tier 2 work and Big 4 work differs from MBB. I have heard their lifestyle is better. What do they do differently?

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Do we have Manager & SM program this year for newly promoted? If yes, then what's the location for US-based. I heard US visa waiting time is high - 5-6 months.

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LTI-Larsen & Toubro Infotech is Hiring
*DM your EMAILID with JOBID to Apply*
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How beneficial is to work with Infosys on third party pay roll from omnes it I don't exactly recall them . Though interview was conducted by Infosys person only
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What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten for dealing with the politics of making the work?

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First interview with CDs went AMAZING! 2nd interview with senior CW and AD is next. What should I expect the conversations to include? Is this my opportunity to get a feel for the day-to-day?

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Did anyone joined natwest recently....
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What are the freebies we receive during joining......

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27M, Pakistani, 5’11, Pakistani, Philly

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Must be kind, soft hearted, warm, empathetic, intuitive, creative, passionate, wholesome, have ‘practical life experience’

Random keywords: Muslim, Sunni, plant dad, socks and sandals, Pakistani food > , laying in parks, overanalyzing movies and music, collecting credit card rewards points, Spotify playlists, long drives

Work: Supply Chain Consultant

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Hello my lovely fishes!

With the Super Bowl being one week away, do you have any recipe recommendations? 🤓🤤😮‍💨
🍗🧆🌮🍿🍹🍻🥧

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I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

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If I get 6 packs but maintain a horrible personality, will all the guys come to me and date me?

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