How do people make friends in Boston? I haven’t made friends here since college... not sure if I should be trying to expand my network.

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Get a significant other and expand your circle. It sounds ridiculous but that’s what I did. Moved here 8 months ago knowing 2 people. Basically spent a lot of time updating my Hinge (photo quality matters!) and dated for 2 months. Luckily one panned out and I’ve met a lot of her friends.

Aside from that. Idk if you’re male or female but Bumble BFF is really solid for females, okay for males. I’ve seen multiple success stories.

If all that sounds lame. Then I recommend volunteering. Pick anything you’re interested in and would do on a Saturday morning for example. You’ll meet different (hopefully nice!) people. I’m hoping to join a pro bono consulting one soon.

Use connections you already have. Meeting friends of friends can lead to solid friendships. I saw you posted it’s hard to break in. During a pandemic for sure and especially w how serious Boston takes it. There can be excuses for gatherings such as bdays or even just playing frisbee/drinking at the park. Anything to rally people together

Finally, coworkers! Don’t discount the high quality network of young people you work with!

Good luck OP :)

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Thanks this is really informative! I do have a SO. I’m F. I just don’t feel as open minded to making friends like I was before in college so I am wondering if something is wrong with me and whether I should be trying harder! Just because it feels like a lot of effort to nurture new relationships and build that history - almost kinda like dating.

You’re not the only one :/

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Is it very hard to meet new people? Or is it that social circles are generally not very easy to access?

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Pre-covid, joining a run club worked well for me! Also check out Social Boston Sports

Met some awesome friends through my gym who exposed me to their networks. Highly recommend trying that strategy if you enjoy working out.

Sports teams or professional networking

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Two points/suggestions: 1. The pandemic and lockdown have made it hard for anyone to make or keep friends over the past year, so don't beat yourself up. 2. I have moved to 4 different cities in my life and always made friends by just doing the things I like to do. So if you are into biking, start biking and/or look for organized rides with groups like Charles River Wheelers, Boston Cyclist Union, etc or if you are into other exercise and social events, join the Boston Ski & Sports Club events. They have a ton of things going on all the time and all are welcome.

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