How do you all manage to still plan fun dates? I’m an immigrant and grew up with very few friends due to a poor neighborhood, then only had time to work my butt off in my teens and early 20s. So, I never gained the dating and social skills of others. Somehow I managed to marry and love my wife but I SUCK at planning dates. Can only do so many restaurants, bars, and walks in the park 🥲

kinda wish there were more ladies in the finance field... working with men definitely keeps me on my toes, but sometime I need gossip and I have no girls to do that with 😑

Can I buy you a purse after our date?

I’m currently located in Jersey city but am looking to buy a house in deeper Jersey off of the NJ transit line (~1.25 hour to NY Penn) mainly because my SO and I are sick of apartment life & need some room & also to be closer to his new job which is deeper in jerz. Wondering how people handled moving away from the city with their jobs considering we are all wfh and will be for awhile. My concern is the potential of going back 5 days a week, which would suck for me for a commute. Cont...

I’m having trouble transitioning from work to home. What do you guys do to get yourself in the “home” mind so you can be fully present for your kids? What are your transition routines?

I'm not showing yet, but the idea of people touching my belly in the future freaks me out. Is there a way to handle unwanted touching (without being rude)?

(25/F) Anyone willing to share about their experience with severing relationships with family later in life? My parents and I just no longer see eye to eye — I’m out of the southern bubble now and after coming out as gay, it’s like we’re just incompatible. Every conversation is strained and they judge and critique every aspect of my life, even though I’m finally feeling happy and settled in my career. How did you handle a new chapter of your relationship with them?

R single Korean girls less interested in dating single dads compared to white girls?

I have ADHD and executive dysfunction, resulting in horrid eating habits my whole life. My body just doesn’t tell me it is hungry and pre-pregnancy, I could go days without eating. My husband is the same way. I am panicked about staying on top of baby feedings and noticing patterns. The Pocket Nanny tracker where you press the button of the feed, diaper change, etc, seems to be popular but doesn’t log it anywhere. Has anyone heard of these and have a recommendation for one that logs as well?

Unpopular opinion:
Don't understand what people are loving about Indian Matchmaking
I do not find it hilarious and do not find Nadia adorable 🙄

Hi fishes

I heard that some of my friends are doing multiple full time jobs same time. Is that allowed? Will there be any impacts going forward? If yes what are they?

Can you please explain

There’s a parent who’s upset about some things, leading to her being super defensive and questioning my abilities and decisions. We have conferences and I know she’s a loaded gun. Any advice?

It’s been 6 years but still feel lots of jealousy about my ex and his wife. I’m married as well now, and I don’t have feelings for him, but can’t help but want the worst for them or for my life to be better. Anyone else feel like this? What did you do to get over it?

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

31 F, looking to date seriously and have a true connection, Nj area

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

How helpful is it to have roommates during your MBA? Did anyone feel like living alone made things difficult?

I feel like I am drowning. My mom’s first year anniversary is coming up, things are not good at home with my dad and sister, I am about to breakup with my SO, and deeply unsatisfied with my job.

If you are a couple with no kids, how do you go about finding friends in the area? I struggle so much :( most of my close friends are now scattered across the country and I feel like we have no one close to us anymore. I don’t even know how we’d go about making new friends anymore!

PRSA Chicago? Beneficial or past its prime?

Is there any opening in python development in Walmart? . If yes please DM me

If anyone is interested in a referral to KPMG, DM me!

I am an independent contractor looking for a new position in HR Management. I am open to relocation. Are there any leads?

Hi All,

Looking for job change. Currently working as an operations Manager and carrying 10.5 years of experience in OTC and P2P.

Please help to get good options in Delhi/NCR and Jaipur.

Any decent salaries for RN's in Central Florida? I feel like my job is underpaid.

What’s the salary range for a Department Manager in a retail store in Pensacola Fl?

How many yrs does it take to go from SC1 to M? Considering an official offer received from EY yesterday

Has anyone spent years working in one state and offered a remote position for another state? Was it hard to adjust to the new state's rules?

Attrition of AVP in JPMC INDIA is quite high... if you survive this then you will stay for 15 20 years easily

Look for a job
DevOps engineer with AWS 1 year experience
Please help me !!

Has anyone heard of Ponce Bank - it is giving 2.5% yield for money market account. And UFB direct is giving 2.21% on money market account. And Marcus by Goldman Sachs is giving 1.7% on savings account. Which one should I go for? I have about $200K to keep for sometime until I decide what to do with it

I am looking for a job switch, I have development experience of nearly 1.5 years. I have worked on tools/platforms like Chef, Inspec(cloud), AWS, GCP, AZURE, ALICLOUD, Terraform, Rspec, and Ruby.

Please let me know if there is any relevant roles/position are available

Does anyone have any insight into the Layoffs from a SCNO perspective? (Numbers, duration, etc.)

Anyone ever do a capabilities assessment specific to acquiring members, supporting them, and retaining them? Trying to build a framework so any good resources (beyond google) would be helpful!

Do you think it matters if you and your SO’s friends are similar? My boyfriend and my backgrounds are very different and while we are fine with each other’s friends, I would never mesh our friend groups. A part of me always get envious of couples who are able to expand their friend groups and do fun things together

Unrelated. Is there a way to completely block FaceTime. I hate FaceTime calls

What’s a good non romantic birthday gift for a roommate? M gifting a F

It’s been 6 years but still feel lots of jealousy about my ex and his wife. I’m married as well now, and I don’t have feelings for him, but can’t help but want the worst for them or for my life to be better. Anyone else feel like this? What did you do to get over it?

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

Got broken up with by my bf of 1 yr. He said he felt like something was missing from our relationship but couldn’t (or wouldn’t) say what. I know I should just focus on moving on but I can’t help but fixate on this. We had similar goals, values, lifestyles and were pretty compatible. We got along great and the physical chemistry was still there. So what could be missing????

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

Are there single people in here? WHAT are you doing different to get/meet a partner?

With the new legislation that passed yesterday and the massive support from tech companies seemingly everywhere, does this mean that Christian views and beliefs are looked down upon? Are real Christians now to be discriminated against for believing in the sanctity of marriage between man, woman, and God? Just curious about what folks think. (Not hating on anyone-Love for all mankind is what I believe in).

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

Did anyone hate wedding planning? I’m constantly considering cancelling the wedding cuz I honestly can’t believe how much drama it’s causing with all family members.......

Reunited with an ex and things moved very fast with the two of us spending a lot of time and nights together but we waited to consummate the “relationship”. Recently, he shared that he wasn’t in a position to be in a relationship right now and felt like he didn’t have enough to offer me but he cared deeply for me and was very attracted to me. Admittedly, he isn’t financially well-off and is heading back to school to finish his degree (we’re in our 30s) but it still hurts a lot.

How to get over a girl who’s still always on your mind? Dated for 4 years, broke up beginning of July. One of those situations where you really think it’s “the one”. She has seemingly moved on pretty easily, which just hurts even more. I keep replaying scenarios in my head and wonder if there’s a chance at a future with us together again. 😔

Sometimes I wish when you were with a partner, there was a very clear sign that the person doesn’t love you so that you know it’s time to walk away. My partner and I keep having the same problems, and when I express he’s making me feel a certain way he says he didn’t mean it like that obviously. But when i say something and explain that it’s not how I meant it he doesn’t care and proceeds to label me as an unkind person who doesn’t support/love him unconditionally. *continued in comments*

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

I need some advice. I met a guy on a dating app. We talked for a few months before meeting up in person about a couple weeks ago (we live in different states that’s why it took so long to meet up). Anyways we hungout everyday that he was in my city. We casually talked about him visiting again soon. We talked everyday since until a few days ago. He just stopped responding… he’s been online though… what do you guys think?