How do you assess if you need therapy? Not really common in my culture / part of the world, so don’t really know where to begin.

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I think just asking this is enough to know you need it. I hope you find help with whatever you’re struggling with 💕💕💪🏻

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Honestly, I think most people do! If you’re questioning whether you might, just go for it. Anyone can benefit from therapy.

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You probably need it, I was in the same boat. Having someone your paying to listen to you talk out loud about your issues will do you wonders

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Thank you all - I think for me it’s also about what will it do? I have people I can talk to, I am self aware to figure out what’s causing the feeling, what would a therapist add? I have no interest in medications, so is it just paying someone to listen to me?

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Talk therapy does wonders if you find the right fit! I had two therapists and thought it was so stupid. When I found my third, the right fit, it was really really helpful

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Thank you again guys - final question, does it have to be in person or has anyone tried online/virtual therapy?

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Telehealth therapy is popular in my area because of covid. I would say private online therapy works but group therapy online is less effective (ive done both)

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If you’re asking how to know if you need it, you probably need it.

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