How do you avoid negative thoughts just before crashing and sleeping it off

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Focus on one positive thought about anything. The simpler the better. Maybe an accomplishment or task done well... a fashion item you bought or a conversation with a friend. Stay present and avoid racing ahead in your thoughts.

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It helped me to read or look at art pictures before sleeping but try to avoid TV late.

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