How do you cope when it feels as if every 6 months, someone you considered a mentor, a confidant, and a friend decides to leave the firm (yes I know you can still be acquaintances), but it’s really not the same when you can’t just ask off the cuff questions and vent over MS Teams; or hangout in the office or at LakeHouse; or commiserate about difficult clients, and in those moments, learning a great deal from that person who has been in your shoes and understands what you’re going through

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It feels like a break up every time, I’ve lost 3 of my closest mentors this year and I truly struggled so much. I finally started building new relationships but it feels like a never ending cycle.

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No advice on how to deal with it but I feel for you and understand. You’re not alone.

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Honestly, it was the most beneficial thing that ever happened to me. All my friends except one left to do something way better. That motivated me to do the same and they all helped me achieve that goal

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I really like this positive attitude🥺I hope I could have the same motivation as well! I feel so insecure with all my mentor left, sometimes I don’t know if I left now does it mean I am just trying to running away or I truly want to do something much better

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