How do you cope with breakup during busy season? I’m not as productivity 😭

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I allowed myself to be sad in the beginning, and reminded myself why it needed to happen. Then I actually used busy season as a way to take my mind off of my break up last year! I was so busy, I barely had time to even think about it over and over again. By the time busy season was over, I felt okay surpriningly and was ready to start socializing with my friends and family.

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Throw myself into work. Staying busy will help you forget this jerk and move on.

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Busy season is the best time to break up. How about all the things you couldn’t do when you were in a relationship? Crazy hours at work (=promotion, bam!), nice body washes he was allergic to, traveling for clients, sticking to a diet, working out when you can. You will thank it later, gurl 🌟

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Love this!!!

I’m in the same boat. My BF hasn’t been very supportive .. he’s been stressing me out and extremely rude and disrespectful. He has been for quite some time. I’m thinking about breaking up with him — but busy season. I agree won’t be above comments though, busy season is a good way to keep your mind off of things because you don’t have all the time in the world to see and think/make yourself more sad

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