How do you deal with passive aggressive retort from a senior?

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Yep, ignore and chalk it up to a bad day on his or her part. If it becomes a pattern, try to work with others instead.

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Rise above and ignore. Resist the urge to give it back to them!

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Inhale then exhale.

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Breathing gets me through a lot.

Depends. Repeat offender? If it is patently false or an attempt to cover the truth, I clarify to make sure that the truth is not lost.

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