how do you deal with the constant feeling of being a failure?

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Sorry you're feeling this way. I also feel this way from time to time since no job I've been with so far has worked out yet everyone around seems to seamlessly fit into any work culture.

I don't know the answer but something that's helped me is asking myself "am I better than I was yesterday?" Even something as little as I exercised today is an improvement. This helps me set smaller goals & see my improvement. Things don't seem like such colossal goals or failures with this perspective.

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I 100% feel the same way! None of my work is bad, it's actually good yet no matter how happy I am when I start with a company, it always feels like it ends the same.

It happened to me yet again recently. I feel like I don't fit at all. I tried to be a bit more positive but made the decision to leave. I was suprised to see how many people I didnt even work with directly valued me. It was a mix of overthinking, some bad apples, and being a bit different than everyone.

I think I'm going to see a therapist or career coach to help me navigate work relationships better. I dont know if you tried one. I also decided to freelance as I think a changing workspace might work out better for me. I realized I might be better off working for myself (despite the risk) and trying to worry about trying to fit in.

I definitely feel this. I just started a new job and I feel like I have no clue how to do my job. I know it will get better as I actually learn the work, but for now it’s a little stressful.

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