How do you find people who aren't into the scene in NYC? Apps are useless and I feel like everyone is just terrible lmao

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Wow WTF OP you sound like a fucking douchebag

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Lol you seem great at making assumptions, your models must be great. My cut dick can find plenty of other places to go to

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Wow OP, with that sense of humor I can see why you are alone

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Everyone is on the apps. Gay, closeted, straight, married, etc. just try new apps

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Wow OP I'm not sure how on earth what you said is funny. Not even close to it. So rude. D2 good luck on your search ☺️

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Magic... And I think I'm a muggle ☹️

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Can't stand uncut sorry lmao

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What scene? NYC has so many "scenes" that everyone fits somewhere

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Hi there

@D2 what are your stats lol

24/Latino/NYC/not into the scene

Alegria on Sunday

I’m assuming bar and club when you say scene. I’ve found friends through mutual interests on local forums (board games, video games, web development groups geared toward the lgbt group), meet up in real life and from there you start to find rapport with people you bond with. Then you meet their mutual friends and pretty soon you’re going on trips together!

I’ve had luck with tinder and scruff. Grindr is a fucking dumpster fire. Just don’t swipe on tinder and not chat. You’ll find someone.

If not, gay sports bar on an actual sporting event night is my go to.

I was trying to be funny but guess I failed 🙃

Fyi - 32/Brown/NYC/not into the scene at all.

OP...you might want to work on that sense of humor :)

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