How do you get over someone?

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Get under someone else

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This is common but actually terrible advice. You need to process your emotions, not repress them

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So someone said that there are 4 main pillars: family, work, friends & love. If we focus mainly in love and we lose that pillar, all fall apart because we neglected the rest. Make sure your other 3 pillars are strong so they can keep you going until find love ❤️ again ☺️
I hope very soon and I hope it’s a healthy one

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I do have a lot of work to compensate the lack of love, friends and family

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It just takes time. Don’t talk to them or spend time with them. Focus on yourself for a bit. It’s ok to be single

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Rebound and lots of it

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Stay busy. Fill up as much of your time as possible with things that don’t remind you of them. Make a list of the things that weren’t good or working and review it regularly. Connect with people you haven’t seen in awhile. Invest in and treat yourself—go to the gym, get a spa treatment, develop a skill or talent that you haven’t tapped into yet. Get outside, explore and make memories without that person. And don’t look back—don’t stay in touch with the person, at least for awhile. All of these things have helped me. I promise—you will get through this.

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I’m still not over someone, 2 years later (but apparently I’ve gotten hotter - apparently from friends / guys approaching me)

It takes time. Take that time to develop yourself. Build up your self love (harder than it sounds)
Immerse yourself in hobbies, things you enjoy, your work. Anything that helps you develop as a person

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Tinder, Bumble, Hinge. Repeat the process til you’re happy

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Find joy in the things, travel, pursue a hobby, exercise…don’t waste your and someone else’s time with rebound relationship and one night stands

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Time, finding someone better (better fit/more compatible), and constantly reminding yourself why it didn’t/couldn’t work

Find someone better and get hotter.

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My boyfriend’s ex (whom i have never met) blocked both him and i on insta. Try that

Time and keep yourself busy like someone said. Find a new hobby or something to improve upon.

Put your car in drive

Going through this rn.. feel free to DM if you need someone to rant with

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