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How do you guys juggle dates and matches with all these dating apps? I'm a recently divorced 35M with no kids. I have a 6 figure job and CPA designation and my own place. I've started dating again, and I'm becoming overwhelmed by the matches and attention I'm getting: - Chatting two women on FB dating, dates pending - I hook up with one woman from Reddit weekly, two dates in with another - Netflix and chill Friday with a potential Tinder FWB - Ice skate date with Hinge match on Thursday

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You don’t have to keep logging in and scheduling more dates if it’s too much. See how things develop with these women you already met.

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You don’t sound serious lol😭 Do whatever works for you, but be upfront with the women regarding what you’re looking for!

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Seems like you created the problem for yourself lol. (Also I’m unsure what CPA and own place and 6 figure job has got to do with the question?) Solution: Build a tracker.

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It probably means that he has a career that's more demanding than average, that's all.

Not sure I believe you actually have six dates in the next week or so, but if you do more power to you. I would use a spreadsheet to keep track of them all.

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How do u get girls on reddit?

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Your city should have an 'r4r' type subreddit (I.e. r4rchicago). You can post there or find women who have posted there. I made a pretty detailed post in the spring stating I was looking to meet someone casually and got about a dozen replies. Most didn't catch my interest but one stood out, I pursued, and it turned into an ongoing FWB style relationship. The second woman posted her own thread about 3 weeks ago, I PM'ed her and we've gone out twice now.

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I dated in my early 20s before I met my ex wife but this was way before the apps were a thing so being able to connect with more than one woman at a time was far more difficult. It's crazy how different things are now and I'm having troubles figuring out how and where to focus my time and attention. I literally don't have time with work and hobbies to chat with all these women and book dates 😓 What is a reasonable number of casual partners to keep available?

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Haha - enjoy!! It fades off with time and you start getting annoyed by the matches…

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Good for you, but be honest with the women you are seeing and make it clear that you are seeing other women.

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@op don’t take the advice to be upfront about dating other women! That’s nonsense until you decide to be exclusive w/ one. In regards to juggling - Early on you kinda decide if the date has potential or if it’s a FWB situation. So just keep cycling through new/old FWBs while you try to find a woman to date seriously. And a tracker - wtf?! For what?

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Reddit dates? Lmao wtf

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So basically, what can’t you do on Reddit?!?

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Lmao 9/10 our man here is fishing for clueless women 🐠 to DM him after thinking “wow - this must be a great guy. He has so many women after him”. Well played sir but we have legends like AH before 👍

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Considering he's complaining about having too many women, I doubt that's the case here lol

Damn! CPA, Does have its own benifits.

You’re in a sweet spot. Guys like you are the love interest in every hallmark movie. Enjoy!

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Part of the crowd. The briefcase doesn't show in post details though.

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