How do you know if your friendship has gone beyond friendship and it is something different?

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Ask them out

Do you kiss? Physical contact when around each other? Go for 1-1 dates?

Ask her if she’d like to meet up for food/drinks

Kiss and find out

After pound town

To give more background ...
My friend mentioned it to me almost couple of months ago.My friend got an.offer as well somewhere and actually sent me the offer letter , it felt a bit different as I have many opposite gender friends and that friend sent it to me.
Other odd thing is we talk everyday.

I don't want to get married soon ... I didnt turn it down, said we will become bestfriends..

Just have the conversation :)

After reading the comments it looks like your friend wants something more, but you don’t.
Do you like him in a romantic way?

You’re not confused. Just pretending to.

Personally I think marrying your best friend is the best kinda marriage. Nothing better than that - so much trust and compatibility. My husband is my best friend, we had to work at it. That’s the goal. You want to marry that person who will be there no matter what

Hm don't know , thing is without meeting him after 4 years can't say anything. Thing is I am not mentally.prepared for marriage

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