How do you know if your relationship is moving out of the honeymoon phase or if it’s just your relationship anxiety eating away at your excitement 😅

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6 months

Not entirely sure on the parameters for “honeymoon phase”, but I’d say when you genuinely get annoyed like they’re a long time friend? Mine officially ended yesterday after 4 months when we had our first fight. It wasn’t the first time he’d done something annoying but it was the first time I decided not to overlook it. So we had an argument and today feels much better because now I know what our arguing styles are and it makes me feel more comfortable to discuss disagreements in the future without feeling unsure of myself.

TL;DR: when you feel comfortable enough to be yourself and you don’t shy away from moments of potential conflict with them.

Hm see we just had our first disagreement and it’s making me feel more insecure.

Read the book 'Attached'
It's a good, quick read on different relationship styles. Describes three styles, how to identify yours, understand your behavior and reactions, and how to make your style work with your partner.

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