How do you 🐠 maintain good relationships with your counselees? Since I’ve been on parental leave my counselee said they wanted to permanently switch to the person who was covering for me. Feels like our relationship was awkward…

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I would not take it personally at all. When I worked at the Big 4 I would encourage my counselees to change counselors after 2 years if they wanted to get another perspective. Most did not want to leave me, but in a few cases it was not such a productive relationship because their career was leading in a direction away from my areas of expertise. Embrace change of managers or counselors. Wouldn't you want to be able to do the same?

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