like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

Become BFFs with your colleagues, thereby removing the need for a social life outside of work

likefunnysmart

Fwb

like

I also view it as a time limited, near-term investment to accelerate my learning and credentials. Almost like a business PHD or something.

What helps is:
1) Protect Friday eve to Sunday aggressively (tougher to do once you become senior)
2) Work with the same people once you find your area in the firm
3) Avoid ‘red flag’ cases: typically new clients, anything with a timeframe <4 weeks, DDs, many strategy cases…speak to people in your firm to calibrate what this means there
4) Accept a minor trade off in performance - again as you get more senior it’s worse - but there is an extra 10% of push required to get the very highest performance grade. The extra hour of digging for insights, prepping on the weekend, finessing slides vs good enough so there is limited iteration - you can get the grade below top without doing all of the above when you are more junior. And still be on a good enough trajectory for promotion.
5) Always keep perspective - cases can get very intense, but regularly reminding yourself that it is not a life/death issue, that you are smart and will get through the crunch periods as a team are helpful for mental well-being.
6) Don’t define yourself by your career. Keep up hobbies, friendships, family bonds. Don’t wear on your sleeve that you are a top tier consultant. It’s easy to get lost in the sauce. But some day, everyone has to leave the firms - even senior partners.

likehelpful

It’s just my experience and don’t get me wrong, I love a good strategy case but once you have done strategy for a number of years, the process starts to become really repetitive, painful from a wlb perspective and diminishing returns in terms of new skills vs transformation/ execution where you actually impact the P&L (often diverging materially from what you thought was possible in the strat phase)

like
Recent IconRecent

Honestly I have not found a way to cope. My social life and mental health have suffered

like

:( sorry to hear! Is it really that bad??

It's not non-existent... sure, it's worse than my old job, but I have a spouse, hobbies, and great friends I see regularly, plus many fun vacations every year

like

Wish I could meet you two but I'm based in Texas!

Associate Partner here rated distinctive multiple times. I have had good WLB. Sure, plenty of crunchy weeks, especially on strategy pieces, but I learned to set boundaries, leverage tools, work with great people (above and below), prioritize, and manage expectations.

like

No. It sounds like McKinsey thinks about productivity tools differently from EY and BCG.

likefunny

I put up with it for 3 years to accelerate my career, then left as soon as I got a good exit opportunity with Wlb

like

Damn this is awesome, would love to hear more @bcg3

1) Value those free weekends and being able to turn the phone off when sleeping (didn’t have that at previous job in healthcare)
2) solve studies for people, work with people you like and build a friend group in the office - works for me as I want to spend time with my friends so I sort of enjoy that. And as my colleagues are friends for me, spending time with them means working as a side effect
3) but most importantly - I do think Consulting is only enjoyable if you are a certain type of person that happens to enjoy that kind of work. Same as working in a hospital is not for everyone (wasn’t for me AT ALL) or any other work!

like

What kind of job did you work at in the hospital? Just curious! I’m trying to decide between pre med and MBB myself!

I trashed everything in my life that wastes time. I got rid of my TV for example. I moved near the office/airport to eliminate a long commute. I pay for services to take care of everything for me around the house.

This allows me to actively invest every free second I get into friends, family, activities.

That said, I can easily see this burning most people out. I think there are some strategies to follow that make things easier, but at the end of the day you need to decide what’s sustainable.

like

I get you! Makes total sense

Spend a few hours on the weekends so your weekdays aren’t as f*cked. Basically try to spread out the workload as much as possible. At least that’s what works for me, for others they prefer to stack everything Monday through Thursday and strictly do not work the weekends.

like

I guess for banking if you don’t do any work on the weekends, you probably won’t have time to sleep or eat on the weekdays 😂

like

Ehhh look at other offers

like

You need to adjust your mindset - coming in with the idea that “it sucks but it’s worth it” isn’t right and I think you’re not synthesizing the feedback provided here correctly.

As many others have said, it is NOT a forgone conclusion that you don’t have a life outside of work. Like others, I have a great life outside work - I spend time with my family, meet up with friends, travel often, and never work weekends.

It’s a demanding job but you control your life.

like

Thanks for pointing that out! The way you’ve put it makes it sound better and I’m looking forward to it!

like

It's not forever, and your life may be better as a result in the future. Set a target exit date even as you're going in, so you can focus on the exit date and make the present more bearable

like

I wouldn't say it's non existent. Plenty of good weeks but also bad weeks. I would agree that overall it's not super sustainable in the long term...

Thanks everyone! What I get is that it sucks, but you can make it work. I’m an adrenaline Junkie so maybe I’ll be just fine!

I don’t think it sucks at all. There are parts that are hard, but the speed, impact, discovery and people side of it are all very energizing, at least to me.

Doing a corp strat role where you run the same strat cycle every 12 months, have less access and fewer resources sounds terrible to me.

It’s all about what you like.

like

Put up with it for a couple of years, then get a good exit. Or get used to being super efficient day in day out.

Depends on your expectations. You’ll get weekends completely to yourself, but it is fair to say that you can’t really make random plans on weekday nights.

What you should be able to do though is protect weekday special occasions planned in advance (on my team, we try to give each person on the team one of these nights a week). Stuff like going to a friends birthday dinner, seeing a show with your partner, etc.

My life is pretty chill. 8-9pm everyday, Manageble

I'd like to "relocate"

Related Posts

#offtopic
Need to switch.
Can anyone suggest companies which have good work life balance For software Engineers. 5+ exp. Role
Tcs wipro Accenture infosys .. are bad at it i know. You can consider worst in both pay-range and wld
Eassy to crack their interview.
Its ok if they will pay a nice CTC. But little bit not as much wlb.

likeuplifting

Hello everyone,
I got a call from omnia for software developer role, I wanted to understand what's their base compensation , also how's the work life balance for Deloitte omnia
I tried searching Glassdoor but didn't got much for omnia seems like it's their newer division

like

Got a MBB offer as a lateral. End goal is FAANG. Friends at MBB say placements out of their firms into FAANG is as rare as anywhere else. Truth to that statement? Don’t think it’s worth the reset if it’s still nearly impossible either way…TIA

like

Chase the money or chase the work life balance?

Hello, I’m a pharmacy graduate currently applying for entry level consulting roles. I have first round interview at an MBB next week and I am interested in doing a practice case interview with a current or past consultant. If anyone is happy to help please let me know

Hi. How many hours do you work per week? What field and city? Do you work after hours/weekends?

like

Does anyone here work for the custom or express underwriting department at Liberty Mutual? Wondering how you like it and the differences between the two as far as work life balance goes. Appreciate any insight.

like

Looking for advice on how to move into advisory and if it’s recommended as the primary caregiver for 2 young children in regards to WLB. I have been in financial services audit for 5 years and it really isn’t a fit for my personality. Have a BS in accounting and CPA, do I need to go back for an MBA?

like

Is it possible to talk to any recruiter from MBB, Big4?

I have an offer of cognizant, but I am confused, should I join or not this company, I heard a lot of lay off and firing news about cognizant also the work life balance is not good there,

like

Hi! I am currently a Pre-sales CSA in Nokia with JG 11 total comp around 230k. I’m in the 3rd round of interviews with Radcom for a similar role. Does any one know how is the wlb in Radcom? Also what comp range they would have for a Senior Sales Engineer?
Thanks!

like

I have a offer from ey india - client morgan Stanley with offer - 23 lpa fix + 20 percent variable. I will be working from pune location. Project will be somewhat relevant to fraud detection
Another offer is from citi with 24 lpa,project related to market risk And third offer from hsbc of 20 lpa with project related to insurance domain and i will part of a team they call as api team.
Want to understand which offer should i go for ?
My priority is wlb and technical gowth, company culture

like

I'm a retail employee, and I've noticed that a lot of my colleagues are really stressed out. They're often working long hours, and they don't feel like they can take time off when they need it. I'm worried about my own mental health. Is this what all retail is like?

like

Only had to work 8hrs today 🙃

like

Hi Folks ,
I have got 3 offers , for a Business analyst
1) Meesho - 22 lpa , 2 joining bonus
2)Unacademy - 24 lpa ,2 bonus and 12 ESOPS
3)GamesKraft - 24 lpa , 2 bonus and 24 esops
can anyone suggest me ,which profile shall i take based on job security , work life balance and job growth.

like

Network connection at MBB offer to discuss CV. How do I get a referral without explicitly asking for it?

like

Hi Fishes,

Do you have any idea about T-Systems like project, wlb , benefit & job-security.
Please Need your input!

like

Hello Fishes
Just wanted to know if it's conducive to apply directly as opposed to a referral. Looking for opportunities within MBB and other consulting firms within the region.
Wanted to know if there is success in applying coldly as opposed to a referral at the Dubai offices for these firms?
Any suggestions would be much appreciated.
Thank you.

like

Hi guys
Please help me to choose the best company to join in terms of job security and work life balance.

1. TCS - 16L( with varaible) -- senior consultant role
2. HCL -- 19.6( with 18L fixed) --- Test lead role
3. Wipro-- 19.6( fixed) -- Senior QA role

Total exp -- 8.9 years
Skill-- Testing

Would anyone have any good career coaches to recommend? I have 8 years of Account Management experience, mostly in the Pharma Advertising space but I am looking to pivot into something less stressful and that would require no more than 40 hours a week if that’s even a reality these days.

like

More Posts

Anyone can suggest me a better way to reject offer letter after accepting... Currently I am having 5 offer letter and don't want to go with 4 out of 5 please suggest me some very strong way...


I m seeking help... Bcz everytime I got offer letter from any HR they said me to not other offer letter


So that's why I am feeling not ethical

Seeking some mentorship

like

Going to use this fall / winter to learn how to actually cook (not just chicken, rice, steak, broccoli) lol. Any beginner cook books or recipes? I’ll be honest - I’m lazy and want to stick to some basic stuff that won’t require 500 ingredients

like

Anyone here have experience working with an executive coach? How many months did you commit to initially? Was it beneficial? Would you recommend it?

like

Does anyone else’s company do “secondments”? I was asked to “look into” this? Someone who is a non attorney executive had a great idea they could save money and have outside counsel “at their disposal” 24/7 and on-site? Is that how this works? I know we spend a lot of $ on outside counsel but I don’t see how one of them having an office on-site adds much value? Maybe it’s a good thing. I am supposed to “report back.” Are they a joint employee? I was asked to advise “what this will look like.”

I have two job offers in front of me: option A: join a team I’ve worked at before, where I have C-suite support, with one person in particular guiding and advocating for me, but fewer exit opportunities because this company operates in a niche. Option B: join a team where I have to prove myself from scratch, build networks and relationships, and potentially have better exit opportunities because it’s a globally and locally recognized brand name. Which would you choose? Location, comp are same.

like

Hey guys 👋🏻 I just started selling on eBay, here is an image of my first item. If you have any advice I will be more than happy to hear it!! Please like this post to wish me luck🥺

Post Photo
like

Going to be in Barcelona from July 30-Aug 2 with my wife and son. I have Le Méridien Booked on points +700 EUR (for all three nights). Anyone stayed there before? Good/Bad? Also, I’m trying to...

like

Do not stay at the Cleveland Westin Downtown. There were used q-tips on the floor in our hallway when we checked in and remained 10 hours later even after we informed the front desk

Amazing Weekend 😻

Post Photo
likeuplifting

Hi all, could you please help me with in-hand salary for below mentioned structure.
YOE-4.5 years.
Basic is very low I know :( Tata Consultancy Infosys Amazon Accenture IBM Cognizant

Post Photo
like
like

Anyone pivot from Auditing and Accounting? What are you doing now? Are you happy?

like

Already have CSR and Hilton card (diamond). New hotel choice of Marriott (no status). Worth it to get the Bonvoy card?

like

Hi fishes,
Which will be better between power bi vs Google data studio...

I have two offer, one is using power bi and other is using data studio..

Need your suggestion in this..

like

Deloitte India vs Deloitte USI.
Please answer if you have worked for both and have significant first hand experience about the difference in WLB, annual hikes, work culture, any other observations.
I see a lot in of this same discussion but very confusing and repetitive answers.
So would like people with personal experience to answer.
Thanks in advance 😃

Is refermarket legit? I see many people getting that message on referrals and wanted to make sure it was a real and useful thing.

IT Infrastructure Project Manager with total of 8+ years experience and package is quite low. What are the market standards ? Please advice folks.

like

Monday’s = off day
Tuesday = Client basketball league after work
Wednesday = Yoga (CorePower) after work
Thursday morning = light weights/cardio before work

likeuplifting

thoughts on the FRM license?

like

Additional Posts in All Things MBB

Hi All,
~6 Yrs of consulting exp, most of it in Financial Services. Solid experience in digital transformation, op model redesign etc., Currently SM (Partner - 1) looking for EM role @ McKinsey. Lookin to connect & get a referral. Thanks! McKinsey & Company

like

MBB fish. Is a London -> NYC move easy? American so don’t need a visa

like

Mckinsey senior BA comp?

like