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How do you personally handle dating when your own W/L balance is up in their air and you're never quite sure how late you'll need to work?

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What A1 said. But also, if that person is worth seeing/spending time with, stay committed to said plans and show up and be present for that time - even if it’s just an hour or two. I’ve been dating someone for 8 weeks and Sunday is our standing date night - have dates other days and nights too but always Sunday seems to work for both of us so it’s a thing now.


Try to be straight forward about that when planning. Anticipate days that I am going to be working later than usual, and trying to avoid scheduling for those. Frankly, if someone isn’t going to be accepting of knowing my work will sometimes cancel dinners then I’m not sure it would work out to begin with..


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