Hey Analyst. I feel the same way too! I’m a guy and a girl I like talking to in person doesn’t text the same way and sometimes we go days without texting. We are still in the initial talking phase, but still. I don’t feel like you are being strung along though. Just set up more time for coffees or dates!
Well early on I almost cancelled plans with him because I assumed he wasn’t that into me and then he apologized and explained he’s just not a good texter which I’ve since been trying to accept. But sometimes I worry it’s deliberate or sort some of game. Maybe I am just over thinking it. I don’t want to ask him to text me more though because I don’t want to seem too needy or overbearing. The case may be that I need to work on being more secure I guess.
Hey Analyst. I feel the same way too! I’m a guy and a girl I like talking to in person doesn’t text the same way and sometimes we go days without texting. We are still in the initial talking phase, but still. I don’t feel like you are being strung along though. Just set up more time for coffees or dates!
Rising Star
Good points!!
You can always just ask him if it’s a normal habit and see if you can find a middle ground to help you feel more secure.
Rising Star
Well early on I almost cancelled plans with him because I assumed he wasn’t that into me and then he apologized and explained he’s just not a good texter which I’ve since been trying to accept. But sometimes I worry it’s deliberate or sort some of game. Maybe I am just over thinking it. I don’t want to ask him to text me more though because I don’t want to seem too needy or overbearing. The case may be that I need to work on being more secure I guess.
I’m pretty quick in my replies 😉
Honestly who cares about the mode of communication. If they don't text well, then just call.
What are your ages OP?
Ok id take his word for it and let it go. Begin a relationship with trust is the best you can do.