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How do you suggest I enforce boundaries with a potential casual sex partner? Trying to make sure I get it right from jump.

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By being upfront about what you both do and don't want out of the relationship. With you knowing you're going into it wanting it be casual, it should be easy to set the boundaries because you're not going into it to see where it goes. If your feelings change at any point, be sure to revaluate and re-discuss.

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Also, doing this upfront makes for a much easier conversation before habit and emotions get in the way.

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What boundaries are you trying to enforce? Like, what you're willing to do in bed, how often you want to see him, what you do/don't want to do to avoid getting emotionally involved?

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