How do you tell your mentor that his manager- who you know is his best friend - hates you?

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If the manager and your mentor are best friends and the manager really does hate you, don't you think your mentor knows that already?

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If his manager is his best friend, and his manager hates you, then your mentor probably already knows.

You can say “I don’t know if I’m imagining it, but for some reason I get the feeling that your manager doesn’t like me.”

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Why does this person hate you?

Also....how do you know they hate you? Just curious.

I said “X hates me lol”

Why do you need to tell them?

You don’t

I would not even go there!

You do not

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